Picking up a girl that is surrounded by guys.

[wacki]

Last night I ran across an interesting situation. There was this uber hot girl at the club. She was surrounded by guys. I looked at her she saw me looking at her but I didn't approach. I went into another room with a DJ with my friends. 5 minutes later she came into the room and stood 5 feet away. She lit a cig and took 2 puffs turn to me and with a huge grin smiled and said "hi". I said "hi" and before I could get a second word out she turned away to ash in the garbage can and 2 guys came up and talked to her and took her away. There wasn't much time for conversation if any.

10 minutes later she walked up to me and we chatted for about 5 minutes. She then said for me to stay there and she would be back. She then went to talk to her male friends. I was with a bunch of girls last night so I went to talk to them. 10 minutes later I noticed she walked right by me (it was a big club) but didn't approach. Maybe it was because I was with a bunch of girls? I don't know. Anyway right as I noticed she walked by a guy grabbed her. At that point I didn't care as she was hot but not something I would date for more than a month. She could of made a good friend though.

Still, lets say I did care, what would be the expert play?

should I wave and smile at her and let her approach me for a third time? That seems like a dildo move to me.

Should I approach her when she is surrounded by guys? That has trouble all over it.

Should I just buy her a drink and give it to her when she is with the guys? Or have the bartender give it to her? She probably has enough of those.

Should I bombard her when she goes to the bathroom? That means I have to stare at her every 30 seconds... eek. Also, 1 lady friend told me that is the perfect time, another woman said she hates that move. But whatever....

SIIHP

[wacki]

courtesy of another 2+2'er via google talk:

as she went to walk off, and said she would be back
you say "hey you got people here you have to talk to and so do I"
so about I just get you number
and we can talk over lunch

[mslif]

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Should I just buy her a drink and give it to her when she is with the guys?

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Bad move, a smart girl won't take a drink from a guy in a bar (You could have slipped something in it)
She came to you twice and you did not make a move, she probably thought you were not interested.
My question is why did she let those guys take her away? If she was really interested in you she would have told them to get lost.
Getting her while she was going to the bathroom would have been you best bet here. Not the perfect timing but if this is the only time she is alone, go for it.

[mslif]

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courtesy of another 2+2'er via google talk:

as she went to walk off, and said she would be back
you say "hey you got people here you have to talk to and so do I"
so about I just get you number
and we can talk over lunch

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I have to admit that's a pretty good move.

[utmt40]

Just do what HITCH would do and you'll be fine.

[BusterStacks]

*point finger*

"You... now"

I think you gotta go all or nothing here.

[Brad22]

You have to close when you were talking to her. If she's that hot, be funny and keep the conversation light. Bust on her a few times to keep her laughing and on her toes, then get a number.

Whatever, you learned for the next time.

[cardcounter0]

Hahahahaha! Why do you think she was surrounded by guys? She was playing all of you. She was trying to rope you into being a part of her fan club also. Later that night, she left the club alone, and went and banged her Biker boy friend really hard.
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[IggyWH]

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should I wave

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YES, giving a faggity ass wave to a chick in a club is a definite panty dropper.