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Ok, here’s the skinny,
My best friend had been in a relationship with a girl for about a year. Well it pretty much went no where, and about a month ago he talked to her and they mutually agreed to be friends, but the romance part was gone. I think he made the mistake of not making a clean break, and they kept hanging out together throughout the last month. They work in the same building, so I guess that can make things more complicated. Anyway – today she “borrowed” his rig to run some errands. Turns out the whole running errands bit was a lie, and she actually had a nice stereo systems installed in his rig – probably a couple hundred bucks easy. IMO (and I think his too) not something you spend on …just a friend. He thought they were on the same page, but it would appear not. What’s my friends move?? He doesn’t want a relationship with this girl beyond just friends, and doesn’t want to be a dick. Sarge[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] EDIT: I told him he shouldn't accept the gift, but he's not sure you can return a car stereo. |
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maybe buy her an equally nice gift and then tell her you just want to be friends, but you are giving a nice gift anyways because you didn't want to feel like a jerk?
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A girl who buys expensive gifts after you break up with her.... whats the problem? If it really is an issue send her my way [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
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I'd recommend he tells her exactly how he feels. He might get a different perspective after doing so. Who knows why she bought him the gift but why guess. Maybe she thought she owed him $200 or something. This doesn't seem to be too difficult to me.
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Ok, here’s the skinny, My best friend had been in a relationship with a girl for about a year. Well it pretty much went no where, and about a month ago he talked to her and they mutually agreed to be friends, but the romance part was gone. I think he made the mistake of not making a clean break, and they kept hanging out together throughout the last month. They work in the same building, so I guess that can make things more complicated. Anyway – today she “borrowed” his rig to run some errands. Turns out the whole running errands bit was a lie, and she actually had a nice stereo systems installed in his rig – probably a couple hundred bucks easy. IMO (and I think his too) not something you spend on …just a friend. He thought they were on the same page, but it would appear not. What’s my friends move?? He doesn’t want a relationship with this girl beyond just friends, and doesn’t want to be a dick. Sarge[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] Get more, get all he can. Freaking girls do it all the time! It's not about being a dick it's about keeping a balance in the universe. It's his duty as a man and if he has to sleep with her every once in awhile to keep getting free [censored] then that's a sacrifice he's gonna have to make. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] |
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I'd recommend he tells her exactly how he feels. He might get a different perspective after doing so. Who knows why she bought him the gift but why guess. Maybe she thought she owed him $200 or something. This doesn't seem to be too difficult to me. [/ QUOTE ] I think this going to end up him being the dick by default, and her having hurt feelings, but there aren't alot of other options here. Sarge[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] |
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![]() OMG......... If the situation was reversed, females would totally let the guy buy her gifts and not think twice. Please let him enjoy this once in a lifetime situation. |
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"rig" haha
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That's Pacific Northwest speak for - Isuza Trooper.
Forgive my dialiect. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Sarge[img]/images/graemlins/diamond.gif[/img] |
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I thought it was isuzu [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]. I guess i was also mistakely thought rigs could only be actual trucks, and not silly SUV wannabe's [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img].
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