Weird happenings, what should I make of it?

[mostsmooth]

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then I proceed to go back to sleep.
Then, I wake up at 4:30 and she is gone.

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I open up my computer, and several of my logs from AIM are open. (I use trillian and it logs every conversation I have). They have some 'incriminating' parts of conversations highlited.

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There is a small outside chance that I could have manipulated the mouse with my foot while I was sleeping, but I don't know.

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This post was a joke, right? Please tell me it was a joke. Please.

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hes saying while hes sleeping, his foot is smarter than his future wife

[SuitedSixes]

The situation has since resolved itself, but two things,

"It wasn't me."
-Shaggy

And tell her the first rule of snooping is that you are going to find something, so just don't do it.

[Bluffoon]

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Well it turns out it was her. And BTW, that other girl was a friend of mine's girlfriend that I never had any intentions of doing anything with. Oh, and I don't feel guilty at all about anything I've done (strip clubs or pot). I have no conscious, I promise.

Well things went relatively well.... at least when compared to other fights we've had. Nothing I did was that bad. I convinced her that the pot messages were from my brother on my account (he is a big pothead), and I didn't actually go to the strip club the time that was mentioned in the message and she knows this for sure. The only thing is my comments about this other girl that I found attractive and said a few ummm things about. But she knows that I didn't do anything besides talk about her. That just hurt her feelings.

And no, I am not looking for a reason to break up with her. We are getting married in June. I am a horrible human being with no conscious.

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Hey she violated your privacy. She had no right to snoop on your pc.

RUN

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Weird happenings, what should I make of it?

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You should make her give you some dome, say a few Hail Mary's and go do the damn dishes.

NT

[iMsoLucky0]

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She obviously doesn't trust you, and it remains unclear whether you are in fact trustworthy (although the fact that you need to lie to her is disturbing).

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Yeah, she only trusts me so much, and she definitely has no reason to even trust me that much. I don't think the fact that I lie to her is disturbing. I would lie to any woman I was with extensively, and that's just the way I am. Also, many many men lie to their women constantly and it works out fine.

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how long have u lived with her?

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I've lived with her off and on for 3 years, and exclusively for about a year and a half.

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Hey she violated your privacy. She had no right to snoop on your pc.

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Good point. I did try and turn it back on her and it worked to some extent.

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You should make her give you some dome, say a few Hail Mary's and go do the damn dishes.

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Well, we did have makeup sex. No hail maries though, and she did cook me dinner [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] She'll do the dishes tomorrow.

[FishNChips]

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Yeah, she only trusts me so much, and she definitely has no reason to even trust me that much. I don't think the fact that I lie to her is disturbing. I would lie to any woman I was with extensively, and that's just the way I am. Also, many many men lie to their women constantly and it works out fine.


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and many many many men get divorces. I'm just saying that if heads is stay together and tails is get divorced, i'm taking tails.

hope it works out though!
FishNChips

[lu_hawk]

one of the worst experiences i've ever gone through was when my gf read about 2 years worth of my IM logs that i forgot i had on my computer.

what happened here is that your fiance read these logs, was kind of pissed when she read them, but then thought to herself "well if this is the worst i can find then he must not be so bad after all." remember that she is a woman so in the back of her mind she had some fears that you might have cheated on her at some point. but these logs proved you are faithful and she is happier now.

[mostsmooth]

not for nothing, but yahoo messenger doesnt automatically archive im conversations, does it? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]