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09-28-2005, 03:26 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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Have you been well laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] After my high school/early college gf and I broke up, I found myself in the same position as OP. I dated around and got laid plenty...but I kept thinking about my old girlfriend because she was really great in bed (I'm sure part of that was due to the fact that she knew what I liked, etc.). As a result, I hooked up with her for pure ex-sex quite a bit, and even cheated on my next gf over and over whenever she'd come booty-calling. Wasn't until I met my current girlfriend (who I've now been with for over 4 years), who is herself very good in bed, that I stopped wanting to bone the earlier girl. The point is - you need to get laid, and with a girl who's got her [censored] working. Get yourself a hot little freaky girl (even for a night) and you'll forget all about the old girlfriend. Unless you're gettin' all luvvy-duvvy lonely for her (in which case no one here can help you). 
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#12
09-28-2005, 03:32 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] No, but I don't think this is the reason. [ QUOTE ] Unless you're gettin' all luvvy-duvvy lonely for her (in which case no one here can help you). [/ QUOTE ] I think it's more this one... ~jack
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#13
09-28-2005, 03:34 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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[ QUOTE ] Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] No, but I don't think this is the reason. [/ QUOTE ] This is incorrect. Do you see why?
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#14
09-28-2005, 03:36 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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[ QUOTE ] Unless you're gettin' all luvvy-duvvy lonely for her (in which case no one here can help you). [/ QUOTE ] I think it's more this one... ~jack [/ QUOTE ] You're screwed...I've been there....YOu're in for 6 months to a year of pain...goto Costa Rica
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#15
09-28-2005, 03:36 AM
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] No, but I don't think this is the reason. [/ QUOTE ] This is incorrect. Do you see why? [/ QUOTE ] No. Are you going to let others elaborate?
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#16
09-28-2005, 03:37 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Have you been laid since the breakup? [/ QUOTE ] No, but I don't think this is the reason. [/ QUOTE ] This is incorrect. Do you see why? [/ QUOTE ] No. Are you going to let others elaborate? [/ QUOTE ] yes
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#17
09-28-2005, 03:37 AM
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You're screwed...I've been there....YOu're in for 6 months to a year of pain... [/ QUOTE ] Does this mean that I should go back to her if that's an option? I'm 99% sure that it is... ~jack
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09-28-2005, 03:39 AM
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[ QUOTE ] You're screwed...I've been there....YOu're in for 6 months to a year of pain... [/ QUOTE ] Does this mean that I should go back to her if that's an option? I'm 99% sure that it is... ~jack [/ QUOTE ] Ex's are like old tax forms. Keep them in the cabinet for 3 years and then throw 'em out. Or something like that.
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#19
09-28-2005, 03:42 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
I think every situation is different and only you can decide this, but I will share my experience. I dated a girl for 8 months, then we had a bad breakup and fought for nearly a year. In that span, she dated someone else for a few months and I [censored] around with someone for a few months too. (As a side note, she turned out to be the stalkerish type, who won't [censored] get out of my life. I know you're reading this. LEAVE ME ALONE. DON'T EVEN BOTHER REPLYING.)
After that year or so, we had both grown a lot as people and we got back together. A lot of the problems we had were fixed because we had learned from our mistakes. I was no longer jealous and trusted her more, etc, things of that sort. We've been very happy for a while now.
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#20
09-28-2005, 03:47 AM
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Re: Getting back with Ex\'s
Thanks for the reply, Kurosh.
I think it brings up a valid point. I think one of the main reasons we were having problems is that we were at different points, or as she liked to call it, different levels of maturity. She was ready for marriage, and I was like "come on, I just turned 21 and am still in college." When we broke up she said that she realized that she shouldn't have pushed the issue so much. She also told me that she realized that she was causing too many arguements and realized it wasn't worth it. I wonder if she only thinks she could change or if it would actually last. Anyway, I'm glad things are working out for you and wish you the best of luck. ~jack
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