Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?

[lapoker17]

I feel you dude.

This sounds very much like the spot I was in...and the girl was just so hot, and so good in bed and turned me on so much that I let [censored] like this slide and more things just kept popping up, and had I had the foresight to end it earlier, when warning signs like this popped up, then I would've been much better off.

This girl could be totally different from mine, but the whole situation just feels really similar.

[asofel]

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im going to call her and offer to buy her an air matress. if she sais no and that I am controlling her life I guess I will have to end it [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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why doesn't that guy buy it? or just sleep on the [censored] floor, the pansy.....if she's seriously expecting you to be ok with this dude, then you've already lost.....

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I feel you dude.

This sounds very much like the spot I was in...and the girl was just so hot, and so good in bed and turned me on so much that I let [censored] like this slide and more things just kept popping up, and had I had the foresight to end it earlier, when warning signs like this popped up, then I would've been much better off.

This girl could be totally different from mine, but the whole situation just feels really similar.

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Of course it isn't any different.

Girls are like children they will continually test limits and find out how far they can push things. You need to set firm bounderies on how you are going to be treated.

It is much easier if you just find a chick that actually wants to treat you (and be treated) and the relationship with respect.

At some point she should show some concern for your feelings. Making plans to go skinny dipping with her ex or asking to sleep in the same bed as some other dude is not doing that.

Also things will be much easier if guys will just be upfront with their limits. I can't imagine some girl I am with needing to ask me how I would feel about either of those situations. If she did then clearly me and her would not be a good match. She would be much better off with someone else as would I and that is what would happen.

[Hal 2000]

Try this; surprise her this weekend, knock on her door, march right in and announce that you won't accept this situation, and if she doesn't go for it... easy break-up. Or she'll be so turned on that you stood up for yourself she'll f*** you six ways from Sunday........

And then you can break-up with her.

[citanul]

for a guy with a name like smartmoves, that's not a very good plan.

he is in a LONG DISTANCE relationship, and the weekend is one day from now.

citanul

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im going to call her and offer to buy her an air matress. if she sais no and that I am controlling her life I guess I will have to end it [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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why doesn't that guy buy it? or just sleep on the [censored] floor, the pansy.....if she's seriously expecting you to be ok with this dude, then you've already lost.....

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Dude if you buy another guy a mattress so he doesn't sleep with you girlfriend then please get a group of your friends together as plead with them to kick your ass.

DUDE HE WANTS TO SLEEP IN YOUR GIRLFRIENDS BED AND YOU FEEL THE NEED TO BUY HIM AN AIR MATTRESS! SLAP YOURSELF AND WAKE THE HELL UP!

[tolbiny]

No man has ever been 95% sure that he knows what a woman is thinking. I think you have to drop it to 80% at most- then add in the fact that they are excellent liars in these situations (both to us and towards themselves) and your confidence interval drops into the 50s.
Ad alcohol and its gotta be around 25%.
If this is a girl you would consider spending a lifetime with then you have to figure something out. If you would be back and dating other girls seriously within a few months of breaking up then [censored] it, its not worth the aggrevation.

[Hal 2000]

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for a guy with a name like smartmoves, that's not a very good plan.

he is in a LONG DISTANCE relationship, and the weekend is one day from now.

citanul

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Hey Mommy, look at the AIRPWANE!!!

Are you under the impression this girl lives on Mars?

[PITTM]

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im going to call her and offer to buy her an air matress. if she sais no and that I am controlling her life I guess I will have to end it [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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why doesn't that guy buy it? or just sleep on the [censored] floor, the pansy.....if she's seriously expecting you to be ok with this dude, then you've already lost.....

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Dude if you buy another guy a mattress so he doesn't sleep with you girlfriend then please get a group of your friends together as plead with them to kick your ass.

DUDE HE WANTS TO SLEEP IN YOUR GIRLFRIENDS BED AND YOU FEEL THE NEED TO BUY HIM AN AIR MATTRESS! SLAP YOURSELF AND WAKE THE HELL UP!

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i support that statement 100%. also, i find it hilarious that other people trust their girlfriends so much. in the skinny dipping thread kurosh makes so many statements that make it 1000% obvious he DOESNT trust his girlfriend and then goes on to talk about the "trusting, loving, relationship they have" you obviously dont trust someone if you need to go ask a bunch of people on a message board if you should trust them. and by the way. pictures please.

rj

[citanul]

no, i'm under the impression that last minute airfare is probably not worth the cost given that the plan is to go someplace and make an ultimatum that could easily be done over the phone.

citanul