Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?

[cbfair]

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Just curious, how serious are you? Why the long distance relationship? How often do you see each other?

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This really is what it boils down to.

Also, where is this relationship leading? How old are you two? Are you college age or working professionals?

[pearljam]

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There is a bigger issue, which is: Do you really want to be with a chick who would put you in a spot like this?

The answer is up to you, but having had nearly the exact situation come up a few years back, I'm putting forth that this little situation tells you everything you need to know about her. She's gotta go.

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The problem with leaving her is that I really like her, also in a superficial sence she is gorgous and has no business being with me. Although I hate the spot im in, it would be very hard to leave her.

[meep_42]

You're so whipped. And she knows it.

-d

[MrTrik]

Tell this chick it's over and walk away. Don't effing whine about it either. Just tell her it's BS to be in this situation and you don't need it. Then move on with your life.

[Willluck]

Look at it from the other guy's perspective...guaranteed, his intentions are in no way pure. If you believe in monogamy, then this cannot fly. Probably dump her; maybe, go out and screw some chick and call it even.

[M2d]

they're cheap

[PITTM]

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First I would like to say this post is entirely unrelated to the "Would you let your girlfriend go skinny dipping with other guys thread".
Here is the situation, a long distance relationship that has lasted for about a year. Her best friend, who happens to be a guy, recently became homeless and is in transition to buy a new house. She has a small apartment and the guy asked to move in with her for a few weeks, the only place to sleep is on the bed. She sais nothing is going to happen but im not sure if I trust her that much. I say let him sleep on the floor and no problem, but obv. she sais he would be uncomfortable. What is the correct play in this situation?

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for the record, i have had exactly one girl who had a boyfriend sleep in my bed. we were also "best friends" until we realized we could make out and get our swerve on. im a homewrecker [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]. good luck!

rj

[stabn]

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they're cheap

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<insert big pile of flaming poo as you are the 3rd one to say this>

[Hal 2000]

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There is a bigger issue, which is: Do you really want to be with a chick who would put you in a spot like this?

The answer is up to you, but having had nearly the exact situation come up a few years back, I'm putting forth that this little situation tells you everything you need to know about her. She's gotta go.

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The problem with leaving her is that I really like her, also in a superficial sence she is gorgous and has no business being with me. Although I hate the spot im in, it would be very hard to leave her.

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Honestly dude, you don't seem very into this whole thing. Think. You said it's been a year, and you're saying you "really like her" and "she's gorgeous". If you were serious and looking long-term with this girl, you'd have made a stand as soon as she brought this up. I think you should either speak up about this now, or think about just ending it. JMHO.

[Ulysses]

Well, she's banging him already, so this won't really change anything.