Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?

[asofel]

i've written two replies and keep erasing them. seriously, what can i say. if you can't handle this one......[censored] man, good luck...

[ChoicestHops]

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but it's an even bigger chance that nothing will happen.

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I think the odds of something happening between the two are very favorable.

I also don't like how she could even think this is possibly okay. You would have your balls cut off if she found out you slept in the same bed with an x-fling.

[TimM]

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It's a no-win situation.

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It's an "I don't want you any more but don't have the balls to dump you" situation.

Reality check - would she really act like this if she were afraid of losing you?

[moondogg]

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Doesn't this guy have any single male friends? Any family?
Why exactly is the same bed as an ex-GF the only option?

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I dont know much about the guy, ...

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Oh, this just keeps getting better.

Explain to her that you would not be comfortable with it.

If she gives you crap about "not trusting her", she's probably a nutjob or was going to bang him anyway.

If she's a reasonble person, she should have no problem with you having a problem with this.

[cbfair]

I'm surprised no one has suggested the obvious...

If he truly has nowhere else to sleep, then you have one of two options.

1. Be a truly upstanding and selfless individual and let the poor dude crash at your place while you sleep with your woman.

2. Be a little less generous and let him sleep at your chick's place while you have the GF over to your place.

There's no need to tempt fate and any clear thinking S.O. would recognize that there are several potential downsides to them sleeping together and very little to gain (if its truly platonic).

If it's untennable to commit to sleeping with your girlfriend every night for a couple weeks, then you two probably have deeper issues and this discussion is moot.

EDIT: I just noticed you said its a long distance relationship. Guess my plan won't work.

New question: what are you doing in a long distance relationship???

[JinX11]

Fold the flop.

[TimM]

You missed the part about it being a long distance relationship, right?

[ChoicestHops]

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I'm surprised no one has suggested the obvious...

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Did you not read his post? It's a long distance relationship.

[citanul]

you have a very interesting use of the word "let" in your post.

you should mail her an air mattress.

if you "don't trust her enough" you should grow up, and talk to your girlfriend honestly.

citanul

[Hal 2000]

Hire yourself a private d!ck