Best Practice for calling a girl after getting her number? - Page 6

Michael Davis · #51 07-11-2005, 06:58 AM

"Tell me how to get in a girl's pants."

Gorie is very cool and honest so she might be able to help you here, but even she will probably admit that asking girls how to get into other girls' pants is not the right move. Instead, ask boris or Rick Nebiolo.

-Michael

BZ_Zorro · #52 07-11-2005, 07:16 AM

Just do it you pussy. Stop thinking about it.

SinCityGuy · #53 07-11-2005, 07:17 AM

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How many days should I wait before I call her?

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Two. Do you see why?

grass · #54 07-11-2005, 07:21 AM

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How many days should I wait before I call her?

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Two + Two. Do you see why?

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fyp, a clever funny story goes a long way.

Mark It Zero! · #55 07-11-2005, 07:48 AM

just call her in a few days. Do NOT say something like "hey, this is Joe Shmoe, I met you at the restaurant...", as this is a good way of killing the attraction. Be confident, just say your name, if she doesn't know who you are by that alone, use it as an opportunity to bust her balls ("wow, did you give your number to that many guys that you can't remember?", "you must do that to get better tips", etc)

Keep the conversation short and to the point, you're not calling her up to chit chat, get her in person and you can have your conversation there. Chances are you will bomb it with this girl, but that's nothing to be worried about.. in fact, if you believe and accept that you are drawing dead you will have a much better chance of success. Be assertive, "I'm doing this, you should come with me", none of this "uhm, yes, I was wondering, if maybe, uh yeah if it would be okay, if I possibly asked you what you are doing today?" [censored]. If she's busy, say okay, and if she has a change of plans to give you a call. Or maybe tell her you'll give her a call next weekend and see what's up. That's all you gonna do, good luck buddy

pj4533 · #56 07-11-2005, 09:36 AM

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Number on Friday, call her on Monday.
Number on Saturday, call her on Tuesday.

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TRUTH

Wes ManTooth · #57 07-11-2005, 10:05 AM

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Watch Swingers, problem solved.

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"Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number. Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we f***ed. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?"

bisonbison · #58 07-11-2005, 10:08 AM

Number on Friday, call her on Monday.
Number on Saturday, call her on Tuesday.

But because this thread lingers, let me spell it out.

You do this, not because it is psychologically cunning or numerologically sound to do it this way, but because it conveys the right message and it is so simple that even a chimp should be able to pull it off.

You will not long fool a woman into liking you. All this phone call does is say: A) I'm interested in seeing you again; and B) I am not a graceless social tool. Establishing these two facts allows the girl to evaluate you fairly and may permit you to see her and have fun and fall in love and so on and forthing.

Of course there are women who want you to call the next day or are weirded out that you didn't wait six days or that you called at all. Nonetheless, this is the best course for the vast majority of possible worlds, and if you had the kind of read that would make another plan more advisable then you wouldn't be asking the question in the first place.

When you follow this plan, the worst thing that can happen is not bad at all.

HopeydaFish · #59 07-11-2005, 10:26 AM

Unfortunately, there's no right answer to this question. All women are different. Unless you can read minds, you'll never know what their expectations are. The best you can hope for is that this woman will like you for you. You need to be upfront and act like yourself. Trying to act like someone else will backfire on you in the end, as you'll eventually have to go back to being yourself around her and she'll realize you had been putting on an act.

Of course, if your only motivation is to stick it in her pooper and scurry off, then go ahead and play games.

Don't wait too long to call her, though...you want to strike while there's still some initial attraction on her part. If you wait too long, she might not remember who you are.

bd8802 · #60 07-11-2005, 10:31 AM

thanks everyone for the advice. it was refreshing to see one of these posts without that many "you are a loser, i am so much more cool than you. why are you asking for advice on a message board".

I'll give her a call today or tomorrow and see how it goes.

thanks again.
/bd