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#31
05-21-2005, 03:59 PM
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Re: No second date.
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] i am serious. [/ QUOTE ] Are you really? I do not understand why. Also, my reasons are not "good" and would probably make her feel worse. Can i make something up? Can you guys make something up for me? [/ QUOTE ] Why don't you want to go? [/ QUOTE ] Im not attracted to her and she seems too clingy too soon. [/ QUOTE ] If she's that type of girl I assume that she wouldn't pick up on the "my friend came in from out town" hint, so you can't really use that. I would just call her up, apologize sincerely, and say that you really didn't feel the attraction. Selective honesty works for me in all situations in life. Edit- just so you realize, I'm a 17 year old with not too much experience with women, I just am pretty smart when dealing with people in real life. 
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#32
05-21-2005, 04:03 PM
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Re: No second date.
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if someone sent me a letter like that i'd be in love. that's really sexy. [/ QUOTE ] Dear gorie, I was wondering if anyone sent you a letter like this yet. I do not think we should go out again. Sincerly, DBowling
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#33
05-21-2005, 04:07 PM
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Re: No second date.
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I would just call her up, apologize sincerely, and say that you really didn't feel the attraction. Selective honesty works for me in all situations in life. Edit- just so you realize, I'm a 17 year old with not too much experience with women, I just am pretty smart when dealing with people in real life. [/ QUOTE ] Im very non-confrontational. It took me 3+ months to break up with my last gf.
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#34
05-21-2005, 04:41 PM
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Re: No second date.
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[ QUOTE ] i am serious. [/ QUOTE ] Are you really? I do not understand why. [/ QUOTE ] i guess my reason for saying that is that i'm attracted to things i can't have, and i like abuse. this one guy i know is really sexy when he decides he is too cool to talk to me. which is 90% of the time. then 9% of the time he is talking to me, but being mean.. yet i keep wanting to hump him? am i serious about her really finding that attractive ? not really. but depending on the girl, there is a possibility of it leaving her wondering why, to the point of bugging you trying to 'fix something'. which then of course leads to you getting annoyed and having to say "LISTEN, YOU'RE UGLY, AND YOU ARE CLINGY, STOP BUGGING ME" and then she cries. i'd say best thing to do is call/email (did you actually make plans for your second date?) and say something like "hey, i've been thinking and i'm gonna have to cancel our date, it was nice meeting you but i'm not ready for a relationship." ? or just ignore her calls like most guys would. i'm sure she'd figure it out.. regardless of what you do, i'm sure she'll get over it.
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#35
05-21-2005, 04:46 PM
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Re: No second date.
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i'd say best thing to do is call/email (did you actually make plans for your second date?) and say something like "hey, i've been thinking and i'm gonna have to cancel our date, it was nice meeting you but i'm not ready for a relationship." ? [/ QUOTE ] we never made plans for the second date. i think this is a good idea. thank you gorie.
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#37
05-21-2005, 04:50 PM
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Re: No second date.
I'm with Daryn on this one: Just call her up and tell her the truth. If she's the type who takes such things hard, she's going to take it hard no matter what you do. So you might as well be honest.
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#38
05-21-2005, 04:54 PM
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Re: No second date.
This is from her myspace today:
[ QUOTE ] aint nothing but stars for miles Current mood: giddy i had an amazing night last night. it was beyond me. theres a melody in my head and i aint stopped hummin' since i saw your face [/ QUOTE ] i feel like such a jerk already
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#39
05-21-2005, 04:56 PM
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Re: No second date.
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This is from her myspace today: [ QUOTE ] aint nothing but stars for miles Current mood: giddy i had an amazing night last night. it was beyond me. theres a melody in my head and i aint stopped hummin' since i saw your face [/ QUOTE ] i feel like such a jerk already [/ QUOTE ] Would it really be that bad to give a courtesy date and then break it off from there? Hell, you might even have a good time.
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#40
05-21-2005, 05:01 PM
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Would it really be that bad to give a courtesy date and then break it off from there? Hell, you might even have a good time. [/ QUOTE ] i feel like this would be stringing her on. i will email her later tonight and be done with it.
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