Dating a girl who has a kid.....

[theghost]

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many single mothers are looking for fathers, not mates

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as previously stated, single mothers are a delicate thing and should not be messed with. If you're not seriously considering the possibility of a long-term relationship you should keep it on a friendly (not f$%&ing) level.

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Also, if you end up with this girl for a while it will be harder to drop her when things don't work out because you will get attached to the kid as well. It's easy to start not liking the girl; it's hard to not like the kid who is basically an innocent bystander.

Keep your entanglements simple, you're young and inexperienced. I'm sure there are situations in your future with less baggage - find them and enjoy them.

[willie]

i did it, but i was never serious


and i used to rail the mommy when the daughter slept in a crib in the same room lol

oh yeah, i was 18, she was 24.

[Quad fours]

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Background: I met this great girl(19years old) about 4 months ago, she is about everything I can wish for: cute, smart, positive, fun etc.. go figure.

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How smart can she be if she has a one year old child at 19. I agree with the posters that tell you to head for the hills. She is looking for someone to take care of her, not a bang buddy.

[Fat Nicky]

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How smart can she be if she has a one year old child at 19.

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this statement is so ignorant.

[Brock Landers]

Don't do it. The number one priority of 90% of young single mothers is to find a father for their kid. Not sex, not fun, a daddy. She may seem like she is having fun and just feels like you do. Don't believe her. She is trying to fool you. After all, what is she supposed to do, meet you and say that all she wants is to find a father for her child? Of course not, she knows that her best bet is to hypnotize you with the snatch and slowly trick you into falling for her.

This exact thing happened to me when I was 19. Fortunately, she pushed the issue too much before I was in too deep and I split.

[DMBFan23]

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Anyway, Im 18 and just found out some great joys, like going to bars hitting girls etc.

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lol

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How smart can she be if she has a one year old child at 19.

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this statement is so ignorant.

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No, it's not.

[InchoateHand]

Wait till she's a little older. When I was your age, I had a thing for older women. One time, I met her son. Luckily I had a year and about thirty pounds on him.

[OtisTheMarsupial]

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I wouldn't worry too much about it. She's only 19 - she probably wants a bit of fun also, some time to be young and have fun, and not be a mother.

As long as your both clear what yoy want/expect from each other, I can't see why its such a bad thing.

I know people who have been in similar circumstances, sometimes the relationships worked, sometimes they didn't.....

It does help if you like children though [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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Agreed. Honesty is best.

[jakethebake]

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How smart can she be if she's 19?

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