okay seriously, how do i break this OLDER woman.

[Tyler Durden]

I turned 24 last week and I've been hanging out w/ this chick who's 27. We met at a party and we've only been on three dates. We've hooked up but nothing major. She says she has a problem w/ being into younger men. She told me she thinks I'm cute and all but she can't get past our age difference. We've had a lot of discussions about sex and about being f^&% buddies and she thinks it would be cool, she told me I could be her "young boy toy" but apparently that was before she really thought about our age difference.

Is there anything I can do? She's really sexy and we have a lot of fun when we hang out. I told her there's not much I can do about being younger, plus it's not like I'm 18, we're both in our mid-twenties so I don't see the problem.

Any suggestions would be appreciated greatly. Sorry to sound like such a guy but I really really want to jam this chick repeatedly.

[ThaSaltCracka]

three years is nothing, what a silly broad.

[Tyler Durden]

That's what my friends say. She's one of these chicks that's into older men. Her last b/f was 33. I dunno.

[Non_Comformist]

What age difference? She's seems crazy but aren't they all.

Anyways right now for whatever reason she feels the need to rationalize hooking up with you. This will go on for a week or so maybe less and then your in. All you have to do it wait and maintain the interest level.

Seriously though she's [censored] up you know that right?

[Non_Comformist]

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She's one of these chicks that's into older men. Her last b/f was 33. I dunno.

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Dude, hit it if must then run, run as far away as you can.

[Alobar]

I don't get her logic here, 3 years is nothing. you are 24, its not like you are 19 or something. Chicks are dumb.

Anyway, my advice would be to quit talking about the age thing with her. Part of the problem is it sounds like it keeps getting brought up, that keeps it fresh on her mind. Just be yourself, be cool, and maybe she'll forget about it.

If you guys do have sex, MAKE SURE you do everything in your power to make sure she enjoys herself. Be completely selfless. Make it all about her. If the sex is good, that increases your chances of her a) forgetting about the age thing or b) keeping you around as a [censored] buddy

oh yeah, and be careful, this chick sounds like a head case

[Joe Tall]

Dude, she isn't older. Don't worry about it.

Peace,
Joe Tall

[slickpoppa]

I had the same problem with a 27 year old chick when I was 22. I think the problem is that for some reason girls are looked down upon by other girls for going out with younger guys, even if its just a couple of years. At the same time, I can't tell you how many times I've heard girls bragging about going out with an older guy even though he was ugly and was a tool. I think the only way to overcome this age discrimination is to somehow make her jealous or make her think that she can't have you. If there is one thing that girls understand, it is jealousy. Or there is money. Girls also like money.

[IhadPocketMes]

I went out with a girl 3 years ago when I was 21 and she was almost 29, totally hot... She was freaking out about the age thing exactly how you said your girl is. After we hung out about five times it was not an issue until we were together for about two months, then she went crazy, she was kind of hiding me, wouldnt tell her friends or family about me because she was so embarassed to be going out with a younger guy... It's a tricky situation, some that most women cant handle I guess.

My advice would be to not mention it at all, change subjects when at all possible and just go out and have fun a couple more times. Things will change, if they dont, then find another girl ASAP.

[scott1]

Get her drunk and in a hot tub.



That is all.