Two Plus Two Older Archives  

Go Back   Two Plus Two Older Archives > 2+2 Communities > Other Other Topics
FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:30 PM
ClaytonN ClaytonN is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 1,630
Default I\'m so confused...

Say you've hooked up with this girl already who lives in your dorm, but you can tell it's not going to go beyond that, and it will dissolve into a friendship. At the exact same time, you've got 2 other girls that are into you. The problem is, all of the girls are on the conservative side, and you don't know where you stand with the first girl.

Am I bound to box myself into a corner with this one? Should I be honest with each girl and take it one by one, should I play the field (but wait, they're all in my dorm), or should I say fk it for all 3 and either go downtown to find other hopefully non-conservative girls and/or wait when I rush next spring and find sorority girls?

And I swear to buddy christ that this is a legitimate question. I never had to deal with balancing women in high school. AEKDBet has said it's better to deal with this than not get anything, and I agree, but I'm a total rookie with this.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:31 PM
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

I think you should not rush
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:31 PM
Boris Boris is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 945
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

maybe those "conservative" girls need some one to unleash their inner freak?
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM
ClaytonN ClaytonN is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 1,630
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

[ QUOTE ]
I think you should not rush

[/ QUOTE ]

I could easily just not pledge, but I am definitely rushing to at least have a look.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM
Los Feliz Slim Los Feliz Slim is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: LA
Posts: 577
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

Don't [censored] where you eat. Don't date/mess around with women in your dorm.

EDIT: And I really tend to think that the fraternity dead horse has been beaten beyond recognition. Let's let it rest for a couple of hours.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM
ThaSaltCracka ThaSaltCracka is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Seattle, WA
Posts: 983
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

PArty with each one seperately. Which ever gives you the most fun, stick with her.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:33 PM
Sponger15SB Sponger15SB is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Isla Vista
Posts: 1,536
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

DO NOT look for a relationship right now, it will fail because you guys just go to college and you'll want to go out exploring with everyone and not just get stuck with the first person you meet and you'll end up miserable and curious and one of you will cheat on the other.

I know this wasn't really a response to your post, but I'm just saying because you might be thinking stuff like this.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:35 PM
ClaytonN ClaytonN is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 1,630
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

[ QUOTE ]
Don't date/mess around with women in your dorm.

[/ QUOTE ]

Does anyone else agree with this?

And yes, Sponger, definitely. I don't want a relationship.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:40 PM
MrWookie47 MrWookie47 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: ^^ That wookie
Posts: 1,485
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

Eh, it depends, mostly on your likelihood of seeing any of the girls from day to day. If it's a small dorm and/or they live very close, don't do it. If it's a huge dorm, lots of floors, many different entrances, etc., it's not such a bad plan to date one or more. You may also want to take into account how close the 3 girls are in proximity to each other.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 08-31-2005, 07:43 PM
tbach24 tbach24 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Trying to overcome the bad luck
Posts: 2,351
Default Re: I\'m so confused...

post pics and let oot decide which one you should like
Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 10:22 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.