so is this cheating?

soccerboy9 · #1 06-02-2005, 06:00 PM

ok, well so i have been hanging out with this chick more and more over the last couple of weeks. she is one of my best friends and i have had a thing for her for a while now. we both kind of realized that we "had feelings" for each other a couple of months ago. well the only problem is she has a boyfriend, but she says she isnt happy right now and they are going to break up.

so the past couple of nights we have talked until like 3 am or she has been at my house, no fooling around or stickin it in the pooper, but cuddling and what not. so would u guys consider this to be cheating or not.

Dead · #2 06-02-2005, 06:01 PM

No.

Alobar · #3 06-02-2005, 06:02 PM

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but she says she isnt happy right now and they are going to break up.

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riiiight.

bernie · #4 06-02-2005, 06:08 PM

Ask her boyfriend.

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Dead · #5 06-02-2005, 06:09 PM

Bad idea. He'll say no.

Pocket Trips · #6 06-02-2005, 06:11 PM

depends on how you define "cuddling". If ytou are cuddling her pooper than yes

gorie · #7 06-02-2005, 06:13 PM

depends, can she feel your boner while you're cuddled up next to her ?

Dead · #8 06-02-2005, 06:14 PM

I bet you are a guy too! Let's remove the mask.

CardSharpCook · #9 06-02-2005, 06:14 PM

defenately emotional cheating on her part. And your guilt (ie the need to ask OOT) clearly points to something "not right". I never did dig girls who were with someone else.

OtisTheMarsupial · #10 06-02-2005, 06:19 PM

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Ask her boyfriend.

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If her boyfriend cares about her and doesn't want to end the relationship, then yes, he will consider this cheating.

Tell her you care about her and don't want to move too fast. That you want to wait til after she's really broken up before you "cuddle and whatnot"