am i obligated to restock mom's BF's beer?

[maldini]

so, my mother has a serious boyfriend. fiance would be a more appropriate term.

i go visit, i drink his beer. i often drink alot.

he makes blah money it seems and my mother does extremely well.

am i obligated by social convention to resupply what i've drank? what if i often drink them all? i would do this for a friend but dont see the necessity here.

i happen to believe that since he's porking my mother not to mention slicing off a piece of my family's assets for himself once they're married, he can just live with always being out of beer after i leave.

any thoughts?

[Beerfund]

It's only ok if you call him Daddy.

[diddle]

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i happen to believe that since he's porking my mother not to mention slicing off a piece of my family's assets for himself once they're married, he can just live with always being out of beer after i leave.

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well said.

[Non_Comformist]

Not obligated but it would be the stand up guy thing to do.

I don't know what it is like to have my nondad banging my mother, but I would think having a friendly relationship would be good for everyone involved. Although maybe this is something that is easy for guys like me to say but not to do when faced with it.

[maldini]

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It's only ok if you call him Daddy.

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maybe if he bought a nice microbrew or guiness or something. i dont think miller lite is gonna get us there.

[JaBlue]

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Not obligated but it would be the stand up guy thing to do.

I don't know what it is like to have my nondad banging my mother, but I would think having a friendly relationship would be good for everyone involved. Although maybe this is something that is easy for guys like me to say but not to do when faced with it.

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the point is you generally try not to think about them porking your mom

[Boris]

Anyone who comes to my house is welcome to consume any and all food and drink I have on hand. I think this is pretty standard. I would not consider it rude at all if someone drank all the beer in my fridge, much less a soon to be relative.

[Zoltri]

I have a stepson.
If that little [censored] drank my beer I'd kick his ass.

Then I would pork his mother. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[bernie]

Would you mind if he did that to you?

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he makes blah money it seems and my mother does extremely well

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This isn't even a factor.

Just guessing you're not really high on this guy being with your mom.

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[Bluffoon]

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so, my mother has a serious boyfriend. fiance would be a more appropriate term.

i go visit, i drink his beer. i often drink alot.

he makes blah money it seems and my mother does extremely well.

am i obligated by social convention to resupply what i've drank? what if i often drink them all? i would do this for a friend but dont see the necessity here.

i happen to believe that since he's porking my mother not to mention slicing off a piece of my family's assets for himself once they're married, he can just live with always being out of beer after i leave.

any thoughts?

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If I am invited to somebody's house I usually don't show up empty handed. You don't have to replace his beer but it would be nice to bring something, some snacks or a bottle of wine or a six pack, something that you know the host likes to show your appreciation as a guest in their home.