Girls night out. Your g/f or wife wants to go...

bernie · #1 04-14-2005, 02:51 AM

We all know what happens when it's girls night out. We've been the guys they meet on these little innocent outings.

Are you happy when your significant other goes out on one of these? Even turns down your offer to go out with her and her friends.

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DrPublo · #2 04-14-2005, 03:00 AM

Do you ever need a guys' night out? Beer and football, etc.

If so then you dont have much ground to stand on.

The Doc

gumpzilla · #3 04-14-2005, 03:03 AM

If you're looking for gender equity, I'm not sure OOT is the best place to start.

Edge34 · #4 04-14-2005, 03:05 AM

The ladies need a night out now and then too. I trust my lady not to be hooking up with any other dudes - so what is there to worry about? Hell, these are the nights its easiest to get with the bros for some good old fashioned carousing.

As long as she's coming home to me, game on.

bernie · #5 04-14-2005, 03:06 AM

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Do you ever need a guys' night out? Beer and football, etc.

If so then you dont have much ground to stand on.

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True. Except the environment for the girls night outs are a little bit more sexually tensioned than where guys go for a guys night out.

I mean, c'mon, would gals really go for their guys going to a club, getting loaded and dancing with chicks? Doubt it.

Girls night out doesn't mean going to one of their houses for a tupperware party or to watch Sex and the City.

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bernie · #6 04-14-2005, 03:08 AM

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The ladies need a night out now and then too. I trust my lady not to be hooking up with any other dudes - so what is there to worry about?

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So she's the one sitting there holding the coats while her friends are out grinding on a guy during a good driving techno beat?

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wacki · #7 04-14-2005, 03:10 AM

No, I don't worry about it at all.

Of course, if it gets to the point where I'm worried about her cheating, its probably time for me to dump her anyway.

Edge34 · #8 04-14-2005, 03:11 AM

Dancing's dancing. I'm not worried about that.

If she goes home with the guy, there will be hell to pay. But why stress out over that? Until I find a reason NOT to trust her - I'll trust her.

Trust is the basis of all good relationships. If I didn't trust the lady, I wouldn't be with her in the first place. Jealousy suits nobody.

slickpoppa · #9 04-14-2005, 03:13 AM

Let her go out, but maker her wear a chastity belt. She'll understand

DrPublo · #10 04-14-2005, 03:15 AM

Guys aren't going to a club, no, but guys are hitting on chicks, even subconciously, at whatever bar they wind up at. Or bowling alley. Or pool hall. In my experience, at least, when a bunch of guys are away from their significant others, it's as if everyone is single again and everything's fair game. How far individual guys will go with this varies, of course.

Let her have her fun. She'll appreciate you more when she comes back.

The Doc