I can't believe I'm asking 2+2ers for advise on women.

[CardSharpCook]

OK, so, for you married people out there who are in committed and loving relationships.... How much honesty is necessary? Let's say you do something that you find really horrible, must you always tell? Is it better not to tell sometimes?

Hypotheticals:

1. I find yourself "accidently" flirting with the cocktail waitress at your local casino. You are a straight laces guy, so you feel horrible about this. Do you tell her about it?

2. You get drunk one night after a bad string of poker, go out with friends, are unable to reject some girl's advances and go so far as making out with her. Sadly, when you wake up in the morning you actually remember doing this, so, because you are a straight laces guy, you are striken with guilt and the desire to confess. Should you?

3. When you were still going out, long before you were married, you once looked through your loving wife's purse. Years later you remember this violation of trust, and, being a straight laces guy, wish to apoligize. Do you even bring it up?

4. You have been, for inexplicable reasons, been fantasing about one of your wife's friends recently. As a straight laces guy, these thoughts disturb you. You want them to stop. You feel like you are being mentally unfaithful to your devoted wife. So, the bright idea hits that you should share these thoughts. Do you?

As a straight laces guy, I'm well aware that all of these hypotheticals must sound rediculous to most of you. However, for those of you who are absolutely devoted to their wives, how do you answer these questions? Also, I realize that hypo #2 is the only one that most would classify as a form of cheating, but I'd appreciate answers to all 4.

CSC

[nothumb]

This post is lame. I would not tell my girl any of these things. I can't believe you have managed to get married with this little knowledge of how to deal with a longterm relationship. You probably got down on bended knee for the first chick that didn't run screaming after 2 months with you and you're paying the price. NH.

NT

[LethalRose]

I think this stuff is normal, im sure she has done [censored] you dont know about. Married women are the easiest to get in bed with sometimes...

[PoBoy321]

In case you haven't realized yet, I'll let you know. Serious relationships are based on lies and deception.

[Edge34]

As a straight laceD guy, I'll answer your questions...

1) No

2) Hell no

3) I bring it up if my IQ is less than or equal to 48.

4) Don't tell her, but DO save the thoughts for the ol' spank bank. You know, for when the wife's holding out on you because you told her about the first 3.

[Bukem_]

In general when you do something bad and there is no benefit to telling your wife what you did, the guilt is yours to keep forever.

Saying the bad thing you did usually just relieves yourself of guilt and sticks a bad image in your wifes mind that she now has to deal with.

[FoxwoodsFiend]

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You have been, for inexplicable reasons, been fantasing about one of your wife's friends recently. As a straight laces guy, these thoughts disturb you. You want them to stop. You feel like you are being mentally unfaithful to your devoted wife. So, the bright idea hits that you should share these thoughts. Do you?


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"And he said to them, 'Whoever divorces his wife and marries another, commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another she commits adultery against him'"
Mark 10:11-10:12
Case closed. Time for a divorce

[Michael Davis]

I think you should tell her all four, but only if she's a bitch or doesn't perform fellatio.

-Michael

[fluxrad]

You are a gigantic blubbering vagina.

You should not tell your GF/Wife any of these things. But you probably will...

becaue you are a gigantic blubbering vagina.

[PeeWeeH]

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