Random dude f*cking with my girlfriend.

DBowling · #1 02-07-2005, 04:26 AM

preface: This guy lives accross the country from me. He's in PA, im in CA. I cant go over and shoot him up or beat the [censored] out of him. My gf also living in PA (yes, we are long distance, but that's another thread)
Back before i was with my gf, she got drunk at a party and this guy hit it. She was 16 at the time, he was in his early 20s. One time, 3-4 years ago.
Yet still to this day, he harasses her. He will randomly IM her vulgar messages. He says if she blocks him, he will show up at her parents house (she goes to school a few hours away, so she isnt at home often)
I recommend she block him anyway, and if he shows up, call the police.
Simple enough.
She blocks him, and now she gets these harassing phone calls from a female, calling her a whore and a slut and etc... The number is restricted and they dont call, just send a voicemail from their mailbox. The last time she called, she forgot to restrict the number and HOOOHA! its the same dude.
What can i do? What can we(ootiots, ootards, ooters, etc) do?
Ive got some info to work with, but not much.
Cameron McCormick
graduated from temple university (class 04, business administration major? from here)
cellphone number: 484 883 4253
family from west chester
his fraternity?
he did work for a credit card company, not sure if that is still his place of work

Thanks guys, for any help you can give

pokerjo22 · #2 02-07-2005, 04:31 AM

Call the police or the phone company. Not random people off an internet forum.

Dynasty · #3 02-07-2005, 04:31 AM

Give the police a call.

nothumb · #4 02-07-2005, 04:32 AM

Tell her to call the cops. Or tell her to let him know that if he ever contacts her again she will get him sent up for statutory. Doesn't matter what the consent laws are, just saying this should scare most people.

Did your girlfriend give this guy VD or something? Or does he just want to hit it again?

NT

bugstud · #5 02-07-2005, 04:33 AM

restraining order and tlak to the cops

nothumb · #6 02-07-2005, 04:35 AM

That block is just sick, who the hell is that?

Gets me every time. Ouch.

NT

BreakEvenPlayer · #7 02-07-2005, 04:36 AM

I don't see why you can't just fly over there and beat this guy's ass.

DBowling · #8 02-07-2005, 04:39 AM

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I don't see why you can't just fly over there and beat this guy's ass.

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i dont have his home address. she hasnt seen this guy since the party a few years ago.

nothumb · #9 02-07-2005, 04:41 AM

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That sounds tough and all, but he doesn't know this guy from Adam. For all he knows the dude is 8 feet tall or totes a .45 everywhere he goes. Now, harassing women you bonked 4 years ago is not generally a sign of being a tough guy, but you never know. And there's the serious issue of going to jail for assault.

If you're going to retaliate in any way, you need to be much smarter about it. If you've got his phone number and address there are hundreds of ways to screw him that don't risk going to jail. Save the macho stuff for when it's a local dispute, you know the guy and you can be relatively sure you're not going to get shot / go to jail.

NT

DBowling · #10 02-07-2005, 04:45 AM

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Did your girlfriend give this guy VD or something? Or does he just want to hit it again?

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no VD. im not even sure he wants to hit it again. he sometimes talked about it, but it seems weird. i dont understand why this guy has nothing better to do with his life. so maybe he does want to hit it again.