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10-04-2005, 03:52 PM
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Spice up the relationship
Those of you who saw that comic I made and know the story behind our relationship, I just want to tell you that the comic was just a joke [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
We are back together but things aren't completely back to normal. Gimme some suggestions to strengthen the relationship so that it lasts this time. Our sex life definately needs some spicing up. We need to do more fun things... we just need to have more fun. Gimme some ideas please! FIX MY RELATIONSHIP!!!! 
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10-04-2005, 03:53 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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FIX MY RELATIONSHIP!!!! [/ QUOTE ] This should be fun. I'll start...magic finger.
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10-04-2005, 03:56 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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Those of you who saw that comic I made and know the story behind our relationship, I just want to tell you that the comic was just a joke [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] We are back together but things aren't completely back to normal. Gimme some suggestions to strengthen the relationship so that it lasts this time. Our sex life definately needs some spicing up. We need to do more fun things... we just need to have more fun. Gimme some ideas please! FIX MY RELATIONSHIP!!!! [/ QUOTE ] background info needed. How boring/bad/dull is your sex life currently?
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10-04-2005, 03:59 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
Well, over the last 2 years (of a 4 year relationship) we probably have sex once every week and a half. The first two years it was probably twice a week.
I'm not 21 yet, she just turned, so she is going to be going out to the bars on occasion and I just want to make sure that she stays in love with me. We usually hang out with the same group of 8-10 people on the weekends and go on a one on one date every 3 weeks or so. When we do something alone, it's usually a movie or just sitting around and watching TV. I'd tell more, but I'm late already. Thanks in advance
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10-04-2005, 04:01 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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Well, over the last 2 years (of a 4 year relationship) we probably have sex once every week and a half. The first two years it was probably twice a week. [/ QUOTE ] Yea. You've really slowed down. I hate you. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
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10-04-2005, 04:03 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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[ QUOTE ] Well, over the last 2 years (of a 4 year relationship) we probably have sex once every week and a half. The first two years it was probably twice a week. [/ QUOTE ] Yea. You've really slowed down. I hate you. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] I'm not really trying to make an old guy joke here, but once every 10 days is pretty bad for two 20 year olds.
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10-04-2005, 04:11 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] Well, over the last 2 years (of a 4 year relationship) we probably have sex once every week and a half. The first two years it was probably twice a week. [/ QUOTE ] Yea. You've really slowed down. I hate you. [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] I'm not really trying to make an old guy joke here, but once every 10 days is pretty bad for two 20 year olds. [/ QUOTE ] no kidding... here's a thought: take a day for just the two of you, physically....get oils, food, toys, videos, whatever is cool between you too, and just enjoy each other. If any of the above are new to you then try it. Is your gf comfortable with sex and talking about things? Will she experiment at all? Have you ever making a video? If you both love each other then it shouldn't be hard to have a deep desire to make the other feel incredible...do your part and do research...there are plenty of books and things to read that teach you everything like basic massage, erotic massage, and various techniques for all sorts of sexual manuevers. What do you think her attidude is in all of this? If she's just complacent and fine with things being the way they are then you probably need to have a talk...
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10-04-2005, 04:11 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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I'm not really trying to make an old guy joke here, but once every 10 days is pretty bad for two 20 year olds, but is nirvana after 15 years of marriage [/ QUOTE ] FYP
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#9
10-04-2005, 06:58 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
Yeah, I agree with you. But you aren't necessarily living together at that age. And you probably wouldn't want to [censored] in a motel ever other day.
I'm having sex with my GF 3-4 times a week though [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
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10-04-2005, 04:06 PM
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Re: Spice up the relationship
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Well, over the last 2 years (of a 4 year relationship) we probably have sex once every week and a half. The first two years it was probably twice a week. [/ QUOTE ] Your relationship is doomed. Hey, sex isn't everything but when everythings else goes to hell sex itself can be sustaining. I was married for 16 years. Even in the last 2-3 years when things were going south we still had sex 4x/week. At the beginning it had to average more than once a day. Either one or both of you have below average libidos or youo both just suck at sex and neither one is interested because of that. I am truly saddened to see that the sex drive of our nation's youth has hit such a bottom. The fall of democracy itself cannot be far behind.
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