Not Cumming During Sex

[KaneKungFu123]

When i have sex with a condom, initial insertion is great and so are the first 5 minutes or so, but after i can barely feel anything. It will usually take me a good 40-45 minutes to finally cum. I'd estimate that atleast 15% of the time I dont cum at all; I'll just get bored or fustrated and stop. This of course makes her aggravated and she starts worrying that "she cant make me happy".

She doesnt want to take the pill because of the health risks. I cant say that I blame her reading the back of the box. Science is lagging in this department.

Do ultra-thin condoms make a difference?? I dont even know if i can get them here.

Maybe the frequency of our sex is working against me. We never miss a day. Maybe it'd be better if we were on a one on, one off schedule?

[Lady Dont Tekno]

I've always wanted to try this...

stick it in her pooper.

LDT

[Ulysses]

Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

[Jeff W]

You live in Thailand, right? How about Male Birth Control(Exogenous Testosterone)--100% effective, though I can't say I'm a big fan of unnecessary testosterone replacement.

[ThaSaltCracka]

don't use a condom, and pull out and spooge on her face/tits/whatever.

[KaneKungFu123]

say what?

never heard of that?

doesnt sound safe...

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You live in Thailand, right? How about Male Birth Control(Exogenous Testosterone)--100% effective, though I can't say I'm a big fan of unnecessary testosterone replacement.

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[Tron]

Tell her she isn't making you happy and to take one for the team.

[Zygote]

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Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

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exactly. or get her to lick your nuts while you jerk off.

[Willluck]

FYP.

[Phoenix1010]

Neuter yourself.

[KaneKungFu123]

what about the ultra-thin condoms?

[ChoicestHops]

Having sex for a long period of time is great. 15% is a problem, but I don't see how you can't physically have an orgasm after hours of having sex.

If it's really bothering you than go see a doctor. Hell, at least you aren't a pre-cummer.

[gorie]

just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

[ChoicestHops]

You are in Thailaind.. I dont know how the medical field is over there.

Do you have this problem without a condom? My only suggestion would be more foreplay and the ultra thins.

[squeek12]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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There does seems to be a point of no return where it goes from a possible dissapointing short performance to a full out sex marathon. No inbetween.

[KaneKungFu123]

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but I don't see how you can't physically have an orgasm after hours of having sex.


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i can. it just gets boring after awhile. i'll start thinking aout poker or something.

[kurosh]

Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

[squeek12]

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Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

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This implies that in your previous encounters she was unsatisfied with your performance. Hope you got that problem all worked out now.

[MEbenhoe]

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what about the ultra-thin condoms?

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they work well IMO

[aK13]

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Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

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Use your own...

"How many times has a girl faked a climax with you?"
Who cares?

[ChoicestHops]

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i can. it just gets boring after awhile. i'll start thinking aout poker or something.

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As much as I love poker, it's nothing compared to sex. Maybe you aren't physically attracted to her like you used to be?

[KaneKungFu123]

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Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

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nope. i've bought those by accident before and can tell the difference.

[gorie]

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what about the ultra-thin condoms?

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i'm not a guy, but i say go with ultra-thin, and try different brands if you have to. i can tell the difference and i'm not the one wearing it. so i assume it would make a difference for you, yes.

[AsiaKurosawa]

Thought about female condom or a diaphragm?

The sponge is also available (not yet in the usa, but Canadia), maybe it's available where you are?

External testosterone cream rubbing off inside your partner seems to be worse than the microdose of estrogen/progesterone she'd receive from taking a lo-dose minipill, imo.

Sorry, no advice on the ultrathins.

[KaneKungFu123]

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i can. it just gets boring after awhile. i'll start thinking aout poker or something.

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As much as I love poker, it's nothing compared to sex. Maybe you aren't physically attracted to her like you used to be?

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4 tables of NL 2000

is = to

Condomed Sex w/ someone you can F anytime you want 24/7/365

bareback is another story....

[tdarko]

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i'm not a guy, but i say go with ultra-thin

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they break even easier than regular condoms. i am 0-3 on having an ulra-thin last longer than three minutes without the motherfucker snapping.

tell her to quit being such a wuss and get on birth control, i mean hell you aren't asking her to get on depo (the shot) or anything so i don't see the big deal.

[gorie]

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i'm not a guy, but i say go with ultra-thin

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they break even easier than regular condoms. i am 0-3 on having an ulra-thin last longer than three minutes without the motherfucker snapping.

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quit having a big penis.

[RacersEdge]

Are you changing positions enough?



Mix it up UTG, button, MP2, etc..

[gorie]

is ultra-sensitive the same as ultra-thin ?

[ChoicestHops]

I think ultra sensitive numbs the feeling down.

[kurosh]

There's some website that gives you custom condoms. Might want to try that.

[gorie]

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I think ultra sensitive numbs the feeling down.

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no i mean like these (http://www.condomusa.com/8c03-condom.asp) , not sure if that is considered "ultra thin" or not but i think so.

thats what we use, never had one break but that doesn't mean anything...

[CanKid]

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what about the ultra-thin condoms?

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3 broke on me

[ChoicestHops]

Im pretty sure those are like ultra thin's. I always end up getting her pleasure or just regular condoms. I dont like condoms to begin with.

[ChoicestHops]

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3 broke on me

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Ive only have one condom ever break on me, and it was a regular ole Trojan.

[MarkL444]

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Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

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yeah im pretty sure this is your answer.

[nothumb]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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So true...then once or twice a week give her a kidney-bruiser.

Or, you could just close your eyes and think about pre-teen Thai boys. I have a feeling it might help.

NT

[fluxrad]

FYI - It's "coming," not "cumming."

come = verb.
cum = noun.

You come. When you come, cum comes out.

I recommend they teach this in high school sex ed, or in sophomore english.

[newfant]

This is why God created assholes.

[squeek12]

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FYI - It's "coming," not "cumming."

come = verb.
cum = noun.

You come. When you come, cum comes out.

I recommend they teach this in high school sex ed, or in sophomore english.

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anal-adjective

of, relating to, characterized by, or being the stage of psychosexual development in psychoanalytic theory during which the child is concerned especially with its feces b : of, relating to, characterized by, or being personality traits (as parsimony, meticulousness, and ill humor) considered typical of fixation at the anal stage of development <anal disposition>

[fluorescenthippo]

dont whack off for as long as possible before sex. this should help

[private joker]

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don't use a condom, and pull out and spooge on her face/tits/whatever.

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This is the worst idea of all time. TSC gets my vote for first dude on OOT to accidentally knock up a fat chick he drags home from a bar without a rubber, because he thinks pulling out is a good method of contraception.

[grass]

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Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

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guess sex ain't your thing, better luck w/ poker.

[grass]

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When i have sex with a condom, initial insertion is great and so are the first 5 minutes or so, but after i can barely feel anything. It will usually take me a good 40-45 minutes to finally cum. I'd estimate that atleast 15% of the time I dont cum at all; I'll just get bored or fustrated and stop. This of course makes her aggravated and she starts worrying that "she cant make me happy".

She doesnt want to take the pill because of the health risks. I cant say that I blame her reading the back of the box. Science is lagging in this department.

Do ultra-thin condoms make a difference?? I dont even know if i can get them here.

Maybe the frequency of our sex is working against me. We never miss a day. Maybe it'd be better if we were on a one on, one off schedule?

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you've been riding the same car for too long, it's time to move to another model.

[KaneKungFu123]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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So true...then once or twice a week give her a kidney-bruiser.

Or, you could just close your eyes and think about pre-teen Thai boys. I have a feeling it might help.

NT

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[nothumb]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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So true...then once or twice a week give her a kidney-bruiser.

Or, you could just close your eyes and think about pre-teen Thai boys. I have a feeling it might help.

NT

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Are you trying to make me feel guilty or something? Go build a time machine.

NT

[KaneKungFu123]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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So true...then once or twice a week give her a kidney-bruiser.

Or, you could just close your eyes and think about pre-teen Thai boys. I have a feeling it might help.

NT

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Are you trying to make me feel guilty or something? Go build a time machine.

NT

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I thought you were a cool guy because you worked with retards and alot of your posts were funny, but now alot of your posts seem to revolve around child-sex. /images/graemlins/confused.gif Its a little discomforting...

[KaneKungFu123]

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dont whack off for as long as possible before sex. this should help

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whacking off is for chumps. Im an all-star.

[Willluck]

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I think ultra sensitive numbs the feeling down.

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no i mean like these (http://www.condomusa.com/8c03-condom.asp) , not sure if that is considered "ultra thin" or not but i think so.

thats what we use, never had one break but that doesn't mean anything...

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[/ QUOTE ] TY, Gorie.

[DavidC]

Do you masturbate more than once per day?

[spamuell]

You probably have some fetish which you're unwilling to admit to yourself, let alone her.

Face up to it, once you're licking her armpits while she shoves bottles up your ass, you'll enjoy sex much more.

[Lawrence Ng]

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When i have sex with a condom, initial insertion is great and so are the first 5 minutes or so, but after i can barely feel anything. It will usually take me a good 40-45 minutes to finally cum. I'd estimate that atleast 15% of the time I dont cum at all; I'll just get bored or fustrated and stop. This of course makes her aggravated and she starts worrying that "she cant make me happy".

She doesnt want to take the pill because of the health risks. I cant say that I blame her reading the back of the box. Science is lagging in this department.

Do ultra-thin condoms make a difference?? I dont even know if i can get them here.

Maybe the frequency of our sex is working against me. We never miss a day. Maybe it'd be better if we were on a one on, one off schedule?

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Why don't you just get a vasectomy. Then will benefit in 2 ways.

1. no condom
2. more importantly, no offspring from you.

Lawrence

[stigmata]

If your in long term relationship then the diaghram is really the best solution that I have found -- she may be a little apprehensive but its really very simple and small and she will never notice. Plus no condoms or pills or scares etc. Works a treat 100% recommended.

[Piiop]

I don't think he was implying that pulling out is his method of contraception, but that pulling out and spooging on her is tons o' fun.

The Houdini - While you're doing a chick doggystyle and you're close to coming, you pull out and spit on her back. She turns around cuz she thinks you're spent and you bust on her face. Feel free to say "Ta Da!" or an Emerilesque "Bam!" afterwards.

[willie]

threads like this make me happy that i get to bareback my girlfriend....

[TheTROLL]

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I don't think he was implying that pulling out is his method of contraception, but that pulling out and spooging on her is tons o' fun.

The Houdini - While you're doing a chick doggystyle and you're close to coming, you pull out and spit on her back. She turns around cuz she thinks you're spent and you bust on her face. Feel free to say "Ta Da!" or an Emerilesque "Bam!" afterwards.

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Excellent... more on this here (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Houdini) - and be sure to follow the "Angry Dragon" link... the formal language is too funny.

[KaneKungFu123]

you should see a therapist.

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You probably have some fetish which you're unwilling to admit to yourself, let alone her.

Face up to it, once you're licking her armpits while she shoves bottles up your ass, you'll enjoy sex much more.

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[jgorham]

Haha I love wikipedia! It knows everything...

[1800GAMBLER]

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Contrary to the original, see The Houdini, it is performed by the male, by ejaculating on the female's back head or neck, causing her to turn around and be surprised by the male spitting into her face. It is a long-standing debate whether the Reverse Houdini or the original is more embarassing.

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Haha.

To the OP, i've always had this problem w/o a condom too. I've always followed the diablo advice but it gets tiresome. I'd be more willing to take a trip to the doctors if i had any idea what i expect him to do/say when i tell him.

[The once and future king]

Dont bother seeing a doctor, this is a common occurence amongst men.

The guy who said he cant imagine how you cant cum after lots of penetration is obviously inexperienced.

The degree of desensitisation experienced by men when wearing a condom varies greatly.

Teach your girlfriend how to do pelvic contractions and your problem is solved as this will make her feal about 10 times tighter. Basicaly she grips you with her vag.

[grass]

Teach your girlfriend how to do pelvic contractions and your problem is solved as this will make her feal about 10 times tighter. Basicaly she grips you with her vag.

i suggest you stay on the bottom from now on. /images/graemlins/smirk.gif

[mslif]

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If your in long term relationship then the diaghram is really the best solution that I have found -- she may be a little apprehensive but its really very simple and small and she will never notice. Plus no condoms or pills or scares etc. Works a treat 100% recommended.

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I have 2 cousins that were conceived on the diaphragm birth control method... Just be careful with those!

[AEKDBet]

http://www.buycondom.com/prodgif/j21-bulk.gif

Had the same problem. Best condoms ever.

[grass]

maybe the girl's not arousing you enough, add some good porn to the action.

[beerbandit]

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Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

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while youre eating some cereal

[mslif]

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Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

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while youre eating some cereal

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and watching the world poker tour

[hoopsie44]

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I have 2 cousins that were conceived on the diaphragm birth control method... Just be careful with those!

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Your aunt and/or uncle shared this info with you ?

[BeerMoney]

OOT's been really good lately.

[mslif]

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I have 2 cousins that were conceived on the diaphragm birth control method... Just be careful with those!

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Your aunt and/or uncle shared this info with you ?

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Yes, I am a woman and when it comes to contraception, the more you know the better (I am also european and we are more open-minded about these talks than Americans)

[hoopsie44]

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I have 2 cousins that were conceived on the diaphragm birth control method... Just be careful with those!

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Your aunt and/or uncle shared this info with you ?

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Yes, I am a woman and when it comes to contraception, the more you know the better (I am also european and we are more open-minded about these talks than Americans)

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OK, I was just curious.

[nothumb]

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just finish within the first 5 minutes where it still feels good like most guys do.

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So true...then once or twice a week give her a kidney-bruiser.

Or, you could just close your eyes and think about pre-teen Thai boys. I have a feeling it might help.

NT

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Are you trying to make me feel guilty or something? Go build a time machine.

NT

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I thought you were a cool guy because you worked with retards and alot of your posts were funny, but now alot of your posts seem to revolve around child-sex. /images/graemlins/confused.gif Its a little discomforting...

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1. I don't work with retards

2. I don't think this is true

NT

[nothumb]

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Have her blow you when you're tired of f'ing.

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while youre eating some cereal

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and watching the world poker tour

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on the toilet.

Blumpie!

NT

[dr. klopek]

Lay off the whiskey.

[klagett]

OP do you smoke?

[MoreWineII]

Date a fat girl, they have tighter vaginas. Or encourage your girlfriend to become fat.

[celaeno]

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Are you sure she isn't secretly slipping you "climax-control" condoms? One girl did that to me... dick goes numb after a few minutes.

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This implies that in your previous encounters she was unsatisfied with your performance. Hope you got that problem all worked out now.

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Mhm, I was the girl in question. I hope he got that worked out, too. Haha.

[raisethatmofo]

Another girl visitor ? Awesome.

[StacysMom]

TO OP, UR not alone on this one. COndoms kill approximately 75% of the physical pleasure for me. Its important if one must be used, that you focus on other aspects of the experience. Alot more foreplay and endplay.

[Benal]

Try these if you havent already.

http://www.condomave.com/kimono-micro-thin-sensitive-lubricated-condoms-12.html

[celaeno]

An infrequent visitor, but yes. I just happened along that post and remembered that story--it was so funny. He wasn't even really bad, but it was like our 3rd time of having sex or something and I'd bought one of those variety boxes of condoms. So, we're at my dorm room and I give him one of those.
"What's this stuff?"
"Well... I guess it's lubricant."
"On the inside?"
"Sure, why not?"

... Like, an hour later, he's going at it hard and I just bust out laughing.
"What?"
"That was one of those climax-control condoms."
"You bitch."

Hahahahahah. Don't feel bad, Kurosh, I was kinda sore the next day. But I thought it was funny as hell. I'm done trolling now. /images/graemlins/smile.gif

[squeek12]

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He wasn't even really bad

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A ringing endorsement!

[man]

think of children.

[JaBlue]

use a ribbed condom


inside out