3-bet J10s against good player?

[Wynton]

Part of my recent quest to determine how wide I should make my range of 3-betting hands preflop.

A pretty good player - perhaps slightly more aggressive than the average TAG, but solid postflop - open raises from MP. You have J10s at co. At this table, 3-betting is very likely to ensure that the hand will be HU on the flop.

I've been mucking thisl. Should I be 3-betting instead?