Remote connection type thing help!

[CallMeIshmael]

My friend and I want to play a friendly game of mario kart. Unfortunately, I am in Canada and he is in NYC.

Now, is there any program I can use so that we can connect to each other's PCs, and run the emulator off of one of them.

Basically, I want the setup to be:

- Emulator on my computer
- Whatever is on my monitor is transfered to his monitor
- One input is set to the joystick on my comp
- The other is set to the one on his comp


Is this possible??