Two difficult hands: Is there a lesson to be learned here?

[Masquerade]

First hand I like the limp for the reasons you give. I fold on the flop as it's not necessary to go broke with TPTK when youre in good shape in a tourney. If he's buying the pot, so be it.

Second hand I'm folding AJo pre-flop to the raise. However you've called and missed the flop totally. I fold here too. Is this a trick question?