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#221
07-30-2005, 01:07 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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WHy is it wrong? Because you say so? Because a bunch of strangers have decided that I can't be trusted? [/ QUOTE ] No, it's not that at all. It's because your boyfriend was clearly not okay with it, and he thought of FOUR reasonable alternatives, all of which you made excuses for. 1) Sleep on the floor 2) Sleep on the couch 3) Buy an air mattress (which he would pay for) 4) Have him get a hotel It just sounded like you were looking for reasons to have him sleep in your bed, and actively trying to take your boyfriends concerns and ignore them. 
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#222
07-30-2005, 01:20 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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I guess I better post the results, thanks alot for the responces guys. Well what ended up happening was she blew off the air matress thing saying it would be inconvenient to blow it up every night. At that point I knew for sure there was no more meaningful relationship here. So I just said OK I understand. What I ended up deciding is that im going to continue to have the relationship just for the sex and companionship. But I am no longer seeking a a long term relatinoship with her even though it hurts to admit it. [/ QUOTE ] [img]/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img] I hadn't seen that one! WOW. lmao. Ty! In the end he didn't even sleep in my bed. I was being 100% honest when I said nothing was going on. As for the GF and 1 year crap. You'll have to ask him about that one as I said I wouldn't say anything.
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#223
07-30-2005, 01:33 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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[ QUOTE ] 1st time posters dont use abbreviations like 'OP'. [/ QUOTE ] I'm curious to see what Pearljam will have to say about this. It's possible she's legit -- the fact she used 'OP' doesn't mean anything. She might post on other boards. It's not a 2+2-specific thing. [/ QUOTE ]I've never seen it used on any other boards.
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#224
07-30-2005, 01:58 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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I have known this guy since I was 14 and we are very close friends. Going out a few years back complicated our friendship and we have both learned from it. I have never felt the urge, drunk or sober to sleep with him and he feels the same way about me. [/ QUOTE ] This is not true. He wants to sleep with you.
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#226
07-30-2005, 02:01 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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[ QUOTE ] This is not true. He wants to sleep with you. [/ QUOTE ] And it's not close. [/ QUOTE ]Let me just be the third to say this. There is absolutely 0% chance he doesn't want to sleep with you.
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#227
07-30-2005, 02:10 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] This is not true. He wants to sleep with you. [/ QUOTE ] And it's not close. [/ QUOTE ]Let me just be the third to say this. There is absolutely 0% chance he doesn't want to sleep with you. [/ QUOTE ] This is such a basic thing women seem to misunderstand (even though they hear it often) that I will repeat it again (on the off chance that it sticks). GUARANTEED he would sleep with you given the chance. Either that or he is gay/in other committed relationship. Haven't you watched "When Harry met Sally"?
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#228
07-30-2005, 03:33 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
Missymouse is indeed the girl I was refering to in the original post. Posting this was a mistake and it really hurt her. Obviously I never meant for her to read it, one of my friends accidently sent her an email that was meant for me that mentioned 2+2. Still I think we can work it out, we have been talking on IM and I think it will be ok, and if it's not then it is my fault. I should have trusted her and not have listened to a bunch of guys that didn't know her. I trust her now and something like this is'nt going to happen again. Anyway just wanted to say this publicly, now, lets just let this thread die.
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#230
07-30-2005, 03:37 PM
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Re: Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
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it is my fault. I should have trusted her and not have listened to a bunch of guys that didn't know her. I trust her now and something like this is'nt going to happen again. [/ QUOTE ]hahahahahaha We may not know her, but I'm sure collectively we know a couple thousand girls, and have been in serious relationships with at least a few hundred. If I were a friend of yours, I'd slap the crap out of you right now.
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