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#51
11-01-2005, 06:34 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
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I outlined two possibilities. This is one. Everyone is jumping on the other. I'm just saying don't jump to that conclusion immediately. [/ QUOTE ] That is somehwat prudent, but the new evidence that has come to light, man, makes things look very much worse than the OP alone. All the more so since the reaction to it is pretty much unanimous. 
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#52
11-01-2005, 06:40 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
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[ QUOTE ] Just look for unknown numbers on your cell phone bills. That is one of the easiest ways to catch a cheating spouse (besides email). [/ QUOTE ] My gf's brother in law was totally stupid in this regard was rining this number constantly on his mobile, his bill went up hugely, all wich he could of got away with but the idiot wasnt thinking, he got the phone from the other sister who was getting all the bills and seeing what he was up too she knew what time he met her, when he got the taxi back everything. [/ QUOTE ] English only please.
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#53
11-01-2005, 06:50 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
dont rely on email and her phone records to disprove your doubts she is being unfaithful. I have been the other guy and its always better to just meet somewhere. Id bet it someone from work or someone she see's on a daily basis.
The fact she is conservative doesnt help....think about it. I would get a lawyer and investigate. Dont tell her your suspicious of her. She is giving off a lot of signs she is being unfaithful and is totally bullshitting you. A tatoo and sexy underwear? sounds like she has a 20 something boy toy. get as much evidence you can, divorce her and get custody of the kids.
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#54
11-01-2005, 06:53 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
Don't assume she's having an affair, but don't discount the idea, either. All of her actions point to someone who is cheating on her husband. All of your posts in this thread so far look to me to be coming from someone who is trying to convince himself that there's no chance his wife is having an affair. It's quite possible she isn't, but I'd say it's 50/50 that she is.
You really need to figure out once and for all if she is being unfaithful.
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#56
11-01-2005, 07:26 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
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Get a private investigator and a divorce lawyer. Protect yourself. [/ QUOTE ] I don't think you need the latter just yet, but seriosuly, just get a PI and get the question answered so you know for certain what you are dealing with. If she is cheating on you, every other suggestion in this thread - going to a marriage conselor, talking, romantic getaways, lingerie, etc. - is going to be running under false pretenses and get you absolutely nowhere. You need to find out the true "current state of affairs", as it be, and you need to do this first.
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#57
11-01-2005, 07:29 PM
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[ QUOTE ] "my uncle touched me" and "your nuts stink like hell" require totally different plans of attack. [/ QUOTE ] This right here is pure genious! Swede [/ QUOTE ] gg
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#58
11-01-2005, 07:32 PM
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Re: Just another sorry thirty-something!
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[ QUOTE ] Get a private investigator and a divorce lawyer. Protect yourself. [/ QUOTE ] I don't think you need the latter just yet, but seriosuly, just get a PI and get the question answered so you know for certain what you are dealing with. [/ QUOTE ] No, you need the lawyer to advise you on how to proceed. He should be the first stop and will probably have a PI that he works with. His advice is highly valuable as most people know [censored] all about the intricacies of divorce law.
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