Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?

[oreogod]

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im going to call her and offer to buy her an air matress. if she sais no and that I am controlling her life I guess I will have to end it [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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why doesn't that guy buy it? or just sleep on the [censored] floor, the pansy.....if she's seriously expecting you to be ok with this dude, then you've already lost.....

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Dude if you buy another guy a mattress so he doesn't sleep with you girlfriend then please get a group of your friends together as plead with them to kick your ass.

DUDE HE WANTS TO SLEEP IN YOUR GIRLFRIENDS BED AND YOU FEEL THE NEED TO BUY HIM AN AIR MATTRESS! SLAP YOURSELF AND WAKE THE HELL UP!

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Many guys/women dont stand up for themselves in situations like this. Which is A-Ok for me. A third of the girls Ive been with have had boyfriends and from my perspective, the only reason the girls were willing to sleep around, or at least mess around, was because they knew even if their BFs found out...it wouldnt matter, they would never stick up for themselves anyway. Its nice to be single sometimes. Do I care, no.

Im in a relationship right now and if my gf ever brought [censored] up like this...I would tell her, the guy can go [censored] himself and if he wants to stay anywhere it will be in a hotel. If she disaggrees, ditch the bitch. But Im the type that can stay emotionally unattactched to someone.

[oreogod]

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IF for some reason he *had* to sleep in the bed with her, she would be fine with it and expect me to too.

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lol, she wouldnt be feeling the same if the situation was reversed. To think she expects u to be fine with it, is well, retarded.

[Mason Hellmuth]

Mat is going to love this.

Also: POTY; end of thread.

[Yeti]

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A third of the girls Ive been with have had boyfriends

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Dude, if you've only been with three girls, just say it. We don't mind.

[Joseph Busti]

Im talking if there was truly nothing going on between them.

[durron597]

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i think everyone's forgetting that it's a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP!!! how much bootie calling is going to be going on in a LDR? it's not like OP can just call her up every so often and hook up. OP should cut all ties now.

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The OP really should just do this:

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Im in a relationship right now and if my gf ever brought [censored] up like this...I would tell her, the guy can go [censored] himself and if he wants to stay anywhere it will be in a hotel.

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If you try to keep the rel going as described, you will keep thinking about her etc. etc. Dude, if she's ditching you because she's decided you're out of her league then it will REALLY get under her skin you ditch her first. Just say it isn't working out.

Firstly, thanks for the "accidental e-mail" which led me to check out this tread.

I'll just ignore the "girlfriend" and the 1-year relationship inaccuracies.

I am the girl in question. I didn't read every reply, only about a dozen or so.

Firstly, I do have a couch but it's a 2 seater and isn't big enough to sleep someone.

Secondly, I have a small apartment and it would be an inconvenience to have an airbed lying around.

I am disappointed that nobody seems to think that it is possible that the reason I am happy to have him sleep in my bed is because he's not the sort of guy to try anything. We have slept in the same bed on numerous occasions before I met the OP and nothing has ever happened. I have known this guy since I was 14 and we are very close friends. Going out a few years back complicated our friendship and we have both learned from it. I have never felt the urge, drunk or sober to sleep with him and he feels the same way about me. I have never given the OP any reason not to trust me.

I have taken the OP concerns into consideration and my friend is sleeping in my daughter’s bed and my daughter is sleeping beside me. This is unfair on her but after the amount of grief I was given I caved.

Reading that he's posted our personal problems all over the [censored] web hasn't made me feel any happier with him!

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I have taken the OP concerns into consideration and my friend is sleeping in my daughter’s bed and my daughter is sleeping beside me. This is unfair on her but after the amount of grief I was given I caved.

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It may be unfair to her, but you are being even more unfair to your boyfriend by expecting him to be fine with you sharing a bed with another man. It doesn't really matter that you say he isn't the kind of guy to try anything; it's still wrong on so many levels, and if you can't see why, then you have some issues.

WHy is it wrong? Because you say so? Because a bunch of strangers have decided that I can't be trusted? Should it not come down to the individuals? I mean, if it was a female friend would there be a problem? My "boyfriend" knows me well enough to know that I would never cheat on him. My friend sleeping in my bed just made due to the lack of space in my apartment. If the situation was reversed I would have no problem with him doing it as I trust him enough to know that nothing would happen.

Anyways, There really isn't anything else to talk about as he's not sleeping in my bed, is he?

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My "boyfriend" knows me well enough to know that I would never cheat on him.

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If he knew that then he wouldn't have made this thread. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]