Absolute rakeback if already registered?

[MrBlueNose]

I signed up for RB via Absolute, but I didnt do it correctly I guess and didn't show up on my affiliates list. I'd already deposited and played a fair bit too. Bar opening an account in a family members name as I don't like to do that, do I have any other options? Can I get Absolute to close my account? What if I was hones with them about the problem? I want to play there, but obviously with RB as well as bonus. Anyone been through this in the past?