GF drug use poll/question/help

[wacki]

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i think you're way off on this one clark. that "sounds like" a cool perspective to have, but it's just not practical.

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*Insert a 2+2 cliche here.*

[Clarkmeister]

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It's neither a big deal, nor your business.

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Are you saying that its none of his business in this specific instance, or in every instance?

If one of your girlfriend's friends told you she used to be a prostitute and then you asked her about it, would you really be ok with her saying that it was none of your business?

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Just because I might *want* to know, doesn't make it any of my business.

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i think you're way off on this one clark. that "sounds like" a cool perspective to have, but it's just not practical.

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There's nothing cool about it though. It's IMO just a very obvious thing. Unless they have a communicable disease, I have no *right* to know anything about a S/O's past. Why on earth would I?

Like I said, that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to know, might benefit from knowing, or shouldn't know. But to suggest that one has a *right* to know about someone's personal past, that to me is absurd. It's totally their call what they choose to share.

Besides, I don't know what's impractical about it - it's not like you can force someone to divulge everything in their past you might want to know. To the contrary, I think it's impractical to want or expect someone to share every secret from their personal history with you in case you might now disapprove.

[mmmmmbrother]

honestly man. i think you have to be worried about yourself;
come out of your [censored] bubble

[irishpint]

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honestly man. i think you have to be worried about yourself;
come out of your [censored] bubble

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my pot is ok but i dont want to date someone on E/coke bubble?

Drugs are fine, but she's probably a slut...dump her.

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[TaoTe]

Some more information about the situation would be good. Like how close is your relationship? Our you dating and if so post a pic of her in somethin slutty. Okay, J/k (sorta). I don't see why past drug use should influence your decision. It's not like she killed little babies or anything. Everyone must get stoned.

[Phoenix1010]

I would be bothered and very disappointed. I have no justification for this. I wouldn't end the relationship, but I would need some kind of assurance that those things were behind her.

[cnfuzzd]

let me know when you are done with her....

peace

john nickle

[Philuva]

as long as she isn't doing heroin, or letting drugs (any drug including booze) control her life now, it is no big deal. seriously, casual use of e/coke is nothing.

[irishpint]

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seriously, casual use of e/coke is nothing.

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explain. apparently we're not on the same level her. from a personality/person standpoint, i think it says a lot about a person who takes coke/E for the better part of the year. am i wrong?