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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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.... try to calmly and clearly point out where she is being irrational. ... tell her you're not going to discuss it unless she's willing to look at all sides of the argument. ... If that doesn't work, tell her you don't like games [/ QUOTE ] Dude have you ever talked to a woman? [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] |
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"Quit asking stupid questions" The bottom line is you never EVER answer this question. Avoid it at all costs. There is no good that can come from it. [/ QUOTE ] This is so very correct. Never answer these trap questions. Not even if your balls are in a vise. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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[ QUOTE ] "Quit asking stupid questions" The bottom line is you never EVER answer this question. Avoid it at all costs. There is no good that can come from it. [/ QUOTE ] This is so very correct. Never answer these trap questions. Not even if your balls are in a vise. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
ther answer is yes, and there's nothing wrong with saying it.
Tell her, "If you got fat, that would tell me you have no respect for either yourself, or my feelings and desires. Physical attraction is just as important as any other part of a relationship - if we no long er felt physically attracted to one another, all we would be is friends, right? And If you were to get fat, that would tell me you no longer care if I find you attractive, and that would be extremely hurtful to me. I mean, what would that say about how you felt about me?? So yes, I would break up with you if you got fat." Something like that. Women need to KNOW how important looks are to guys. Or, you could always reverse the question: "Would you break-up with me if I got fat?" Or, "Would you break-up with me if I lost my job, or wanted to become a video-store clerk for the rest of my life?" There are many ways to answer this question - and be truthful. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
So what's the deal with your OOT column?
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
I always turn it around on them. I would ask if she would leave me if I got fat.
Never works, but this is what I would do. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
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[ QUOTE ] .... try to calmly and clearly point out where she is being irrational. ... tell her you're not going to discuss it unless she's willing to look at all sides of the argument. ... If that doesn't work, tell her you don't like games [/ QUOTE ] Dude have you ever talked to a woman? [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] It reminds me of the only good line from the movie As Good As It Gets. For those who haven't seen it, Jack Nicholson is an author of women's novels. He's asked by a fan how he writes women's roles so well. His answer is "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability." |
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"Would you break up with me if I got fat?" [/ QUOTE ] How fat are we talking here? |
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"Would you break up with me if I got fat?" [/ QUOTE ] I thought we broke up last week. |
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Re: How to answer this common female question?
LOL....I don't know....if a Mod wants me to try it, I will...I am a professional writer, after all....
Or maybe just an "Ask Dominic" thread that's only about relationships/sex/etc. I'm game. |
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