One night stand has me flipping out...

[Lawrence Ng]

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I use to bartend for a living and was basically a male whore for 8 years. One night i did this girl, with NO condom. A few days later her Aunt comes to me and says, "I can't beleive you had sex with her, didn't you know her husband died of aids?"

I almost sh!t my pants right there. I was sick to my stomach for almost a year gettting tested every few months. Well it's been 10 years ago so I assume i am safe now but talk about a reality check.

At least you used a condom.

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Dude, you are a god.

Lawrence

[J_V]

This is not quite right. It is a % failure thing. It's just that the 3% failure rate is for couples that have regular sex for a year. 3% of them will get pregnant, as I understand it. Which makes me feel plenty safe.

[B Dids]

Even without a condom, it is very hard to get AIDS as a man with a woman. You basically need to have open sores on your penis. With a condom, you should relax and not let guilt drive you insane.

Nice to meet you in AC btw.

[Al P]

I've bedded some super skanks who were just like hookers but didn't get paid. I have never ever used a condom with anyone and I'm fine (I think).

[B Dids]

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I've bedded some super skanks who were just like hookers but didn't get paid. I have never ever used a condom with anyone and I'm fine (I think).

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To summarize:

I am an idiot, a liar, and I would like attention.

[Al P]

None of the above except maybe the first.

What's a condom?

[smokingrobot]

its natural to flip out.

you're probably looking online for symptoms of stds and being like "i have that!"

just calm down till the results come back in, im sure you're fine.

i had a similar experience. i slept with this girl and before i covered up, we were rubbing a bit and i thought for a second i might've slipped in so i stopped and threw on the jimmy hat.

i was on every symptom list website available freaking out for weeks. got tested, everythings fine.

[masse75]

Did she leave a message written in lipstick on your bathroom mirror? No? You're okay.

[fimbulwinter]

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So, not normally a one-night stand type of person, had a few drinks one thing leads to another, we have sex, I used a condom. Assume this girl does this A LOT, I will never see her again, I got tested last week and I'm waiting for the results. Should I be flipping out? I am.

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people do this kind of thing all the time without hats, so in that sense you shouldnt be flipping out.

however, im kind ofsurprised at this. finding nice girls and turning them bad is way better and its not close.

fim