"you have my number, use it" (Warning: Girl Problems Post)

[tonypaladino]

I appologize in advance for starting another stupid female problems thread.

was at a party on saturday night, and I was talking a lot with a girl I used to work with. We talked a lot about our personal issues we were having with school and stuff. Honestly, I think I must have came across as fairly pathetic. We had gotten fairly close a few years ago, but then sort of drifted apart. As she was leaving the party, she said to me "you have my number, use it".

Does she want some hot Tony meat or does she just want to talk??

I also appologize if my post makes no sense. I am very tired and sleep deprived, and I'm staying up to write a paper, but it's giving me a headache so I'm [censored] around oot.

TONY

[Brainwalter]

Call her and find out?

Get drunk, then call her?

[tonypaladino]

Let me just elaborate a little. I was once really good friends with her, and still am a little, and I don't want to [censored] that up. I may be in the minority, but a good friendship is more important to me than getting laid.

[Clarkmeister]

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I appologize in advance for starting another stupid female problems thread

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That's what OOT is for!

You leave out the important question, namely, are you interested, and if so, in what?

[tonypaladino]

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I appologize in advance for starting another stupid female problems thread

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That's what OOT is for!

You leave out the important question, namely, are you interested, and if so, in what?

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I would be interested in hooking up with her, but I also value our friendship.

She's not exceptionally hot, but she's cute and really fun to hang out with.

[d10]

You've provided no information at all to determine whether she wants "Tony meat" or just talk. But either way, your next move would be exactly the same, which would be to call her.

[durron597]

She almost certainly just wants to talk. Just call her and be yourself and let whatever happens happen (either way) and don't worry about it.

Of course that is not necessarily the play if you are seeing to get laid ASAP but if your priorities are where you say there are that is the plan.

[cdxx]

call her on wednesday or thursday night, pretty late. tell her you are just going home from a bar night with friends, but wanted to stop by, see if she's up for a night cap. you can see if she'll come out to a nearby romantic coffeeshop/coctail lounge or if she'll invite you to her place.

either way, she should realize that it's a booty call. if she has any interest in you, you'll get lucky that night.

[Clarkmeister]

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I appologize in advance for starting another stupid female problems thread

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That's what OOT is for!

You leave out the important question, namely, are you interested, and if so, in what?

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I would be interested in hooking up with her, but I also value our friendship.

She's not exceptionally hot, but she's cute and really fun to hang out with.

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You value the friendship of someone you "used to work with" and were "fairly close (with) a few years ago, but then sort of drifted apart"?? Seems more than a little odd to me. So you want to hop on her and not feel guilty about it not being anything more than a convenient lay? That's what it sounds like.

[tonypaladino]

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She almost certainly just wants to talk. Just call her and be yourself and let whatever happens happen (either way) and don't worry about it.

Of course that is not necessarily the play if you are seeing to get laid ASAP but if your priorities are where you say there are that is the plan.

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I hate talking on the phone though. I would want to meet up with her in person, so I guess I'll call and ask if she wants to hang out this week.