My first problem with the ladies post

Keep the flames coming. This'll teach me to make idiotic posts and to stop being a woman.

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I think you should take her out, get her drunk, do her and then tell her she was your third-choice lay that night, but the other two couldn't get the babysitter to let them out of the house.

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[man]

I don't think you've done anything wrong dude. have some confidence. while you're at it, I recommend trying to meet some other women. not because you'd have any interest in these women, but it will give you options. I'm not saying try to sleep with them, just meeting and talking to them is enough. it might also calm your nerves. good luck.

[durron597]

You've already got an in... she's not telling you to go away, and she went with you to the formal instead of the friend she actually knows. Just take control of the situation... be like "ok, this friday we are going on our first real date", and you're set.

[craig r]

This is a serious question. I am not trying to make fun of anybody. Do they have formals after high school?

craig

[IggyWH]

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This is a serious question. I am not trying to make fun of anybody. Do they have formals after high school?

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There are frat/slutority formals, but I have a strong feeling this is a high school related question.

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This is a serious question. I am not trying to make fun of anybody. Do they have formals after high school?

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Yes, and the suckyness of the whole thing is magnified in college. I'd rather be kicked in the head.

[ohnonotthat]

Listen to this guy. He knows of what he speaks.

I might suggest a slight adjustment - instead of asking her IF she wants to go on a real date I suggest you ask her if she [sic] would prefer Italian or Chineese for your first real date.

I'm not suggesting you be an ass but you do want to take charge of the situation.

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- Chris

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"You get more with a smile and a gun than you do with just a smile". (Unknown but often attributed to Baby-Face Nelson)

Your play is as follows:

Take her out for drinks.
Get her drunk.
Take her back to someplace like an appartment or a house.
Try not to let her date-rape you

[OtisTheMarsupial]

Sounds like she has a good sense of humor.