Somewhat unusual girl situation

[gorie]

dude, i dunno, looks like the only real option you have here is to invite them on vacation with you. suxxxxxxxx.

[Ulysses]

Industry standard is waiting four weeks to call, so what's the problem?

OK, seriously, here's the plan for you:

Call first chick up today. Tell her you are going out of town on Wednesday for two weeks, but really enjoyed meeting her and would like to hang out, so you should go grab dinner tonight. Repeat w/ second chick tomorrow. Call remaining chicks on Wednesday and tell them that you are heading out of town for a couple of weeks, but wanted to call them before you took off and will give them a call when you get back, would love to hang out, blah blah blah.

[DcifrThs]

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Why would your oppurtunity pass? Thats all in your head. And this isnt even remotely unusual... I expect something about a fish, a toothpick, and beach ball if its "unusual".

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or a ice cube and a 9 iron. maybe a pitching wedge.

Barron

[BWebb]

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Why would your oppurtunity pass? Thats all in your head. And this isnt even remotely unusual... I expect something about a fish, a toothpick, and beach ball if its "unusual".

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or a ice cube and a 9 iron. maybe a pitching wedge.

Barron

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There is one story about an avacado, corkscrew and a snorkel but I don't real want to get into that.

[MrTrik]

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Why would your oppurtunity pass? Thats all in your head. And this isnt even remotely unusual... I expect something about a fish, a toothpick, and beach ball if its "unusual".

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or a ice cube and a 9 iron. maybe a pitching wedge.

Barron

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Regardless ... McGyver would know what to do.

[sleight]

Doesn't that involve a buffalo, stuffed, for safety's sake?

[Voltron87]

call them, and somewhere mention that you'll be out of town for a little bit and wanted to see them before you went away.

i dont get it, this is gravy.

[private joker]

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Normally I would wait a few days (of course),

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This is horrible.

The reason so many guys think "of course" when they make this play is the reason the girls are banging me instead. Waiting 3 days is soooo 1990s.

One day is the new 3 days. Trust me. Girls figured out that we wait three days, and they hate it. Now, if you call the next day, it means you actually like them and didn't just want a quick screw. Actually, you do just want a quick screw, but they don't have to know that. What they're thinking is "here's an honest, good guy who doesn't play games and wait three days. He calls because he liked meeting me and that makes me feel special so I'll go out with him." And then you bang them.

Waiting a few days... pshhh. Amateurs.

Anyway, BWebb, call them TODAY. See if one of them wants to hang out for drinks tomorrow night because "I'm leaving out of town Wednesday, and I wanted to see you before I took off -- if you can't make it, then let's definitely get together when I get back." They won't go out with you Tuesday because then THEY'LL look desperate, but at least you've made yourself look like a stand-up guy. When you get back in town, you bang them.

[PoBoy321]

Please refer to my earlier thread.

That said, just call her. Tell her that you're gonna be out of town for a little while and you'd love to get together for coffee or something before you go. It's always better to see overeager than uninterested.

[MyTurn2Raise]

private joker speaks the truth.

I still say get drunk and call, since this is obviously an issue for you.