Was I out of line here?

[tommy2]

This is why there is caller ID on your cell phone. Next time realize that at the very least this is a coin flip bad situation and don't answer your phone. In fact, at times like this, I turn the cell off and don't turn it on til the AM.

[durron597]

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the only possible course of action after declining to spend the night with her was to call her before you went to the party to explain the circumstances to her. And ask if she'd like to come.

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[gulebjorn]

Cmon guys, this isn't even close to out of line.

I agree that calling her and telling her about the party would have been better. But it doesn't change anything about the fact that you're going to the party instead of going to sleep at her place.

Driving distances don't even enter in to the discussion. If you feel like going to a party, go. Especially if you've been hanging out together so much. If she gets mad just because you changed your mind after you told her you were staying home, that's just BS. Unless you have some agreement that you let each other know when and where you are going out or something.

You were totally right, except for the bitch-calling. Ending a phone-discussion with name calling and hanging up is just bad. Better would be: I'm sorry, but I'm gonna get wasted, I'm going to hang up now and we'll talk tomorrow.

[West]

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I then ask her if she wants to stay with me since her work is only 10 minutes from my Mom's house. She says she doesn't have enough gas to come out here, and then go home.

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I don't get it, no gas stations where you live??

[Chairman Wood]

You made a bad play when you called her a bitch. Also, here is a simple solution: learn to lie to your girlfriend.

[RunDownHouse]

If she's incapable of thinking about things in a logical, sympathetic fashion, the OP is better off without her in any case. Are her feeling hurt? Maybe. Should they be? No. Should she realize this? Undoubtedly.

He [censored] things up by calling her a bitch, though.

[FishNChips]

always fun to see 2 pages of posts ... so much to comment on:

to the OP:
1 - calling her a bitch and hanging up is the ONLY thing that you were out ofline on. You are young and will learn all the other advanced plays as you mature (word of warning -- inviting her can backfire "yeah, I'll go sounds like fun." 30 minutes after arriving "this blows, lets go." just be careful with that invite).
2 - she is WAY out of line - "do you want to drive 40minutes out of your way to fall asleep next to me at 10pm?" are you kidding me! My wife wouldn't pull that crap. She's going to need to mature as well.
3 - Call her at the earliest convenient time and apologize for calling her a bitch. Needs to be done. Be a man.

BigSteve :
a - thought you were gone? too bad
b - you're going to try and tell me that the homosexual community isn't full of guys that pull [censored] like this? Try again. I spend enough time eating at restuarants frequented by the gay crowd to know that man-bitches can be as bad or worse than bitches with actual pussies. sell that [censored] somehwere else.

Chairman Wood:
lie to your girlfriend .. that kinda goes out of style when you get out of high school. but good luck with that.

FishNChips