Opening Lines for Chicks @ Coffee Shops

[mprhino]

I wish there was more to the story...I remember talking to this chick at a party, she wasn't acting in way like she had a boyfriend. She then slipped it in that she had one, and I responding with something like, "well thats to bad...but do you cheat?" She nodded yes, I checked if she was serious. She said yes, but her boy friend was coming to the party soon.

I was pretty shocked she said yes, and my buddy confirmed that she was a habitually cheater. Sorry nothing good here.

[GuyOnTilt]

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Nice post Guy. Feel like describing that first initial moment?

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I don't know that there's much to describe. She had just picked up her espresso from the counter and sat down at an empty table. I had ordered and was waiting for mine and went over and sat down across from her, leaned in over the table and asked her kind of quietly but with urgency, "Do you remember that Crystal Pepsi stuff?" She smiled and said yes, trailing off with an ellipses like she was expeccting more, so I continued with, "Okay good, 'cause I just got off the phone with a friend and he SWEARS I'm crazy and the stuff never existed." Which was a lie, but whatev, it just came out. Then she went on to say she doesn't drink anything but Diet Coke, I told her I swore off soda for good, blah blah blah, I let her talk about her life, school, etc, we have some laughs, we chat about other light stuff for ~half an hour before we have to go. I get her number and give her a hug goodbye and that's it.

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I've stopped worrying about the intro so much, as what you say doesn't matter nearly as much as how you say it, or what you follow up with.

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Definitely true. Can't be stressed enough.

GoT

[tonypaladino]

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say, "did you know i was all county in '96..."

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'95!!!! WTF This calls for a lifetime banning!!!!!!

[Dantes]

isn't the correct response "well I'm quick lets go to the bathroom"?

[mprhino]

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isn't the correct response "well I'm quick lets go to the bathroom"?

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haha...yes it is, I guess i wasn't on top of my game.

[whiskeytown]

that does it - you're going on the list.

Right after Lenny and the Illumaniti.

RB

[runout_mick]

Walk up to her and ask with a smile and a slightly confused look on your face : "Aren't you Christie's sister?". When she denies it, your conversation has already started, as you exchange ideas as to where you've met before (even though you know you haven't).

Your foot's in the door, run with it.

My friends keep a running count on how many times they've heard me ask this question as it works anywhere and in any situation, and there's no need to change it up.

p.s. I started doing this to meet girls after actually mistaking a girl for "Christie's sister", and proceeding to have a great conversation with the misidentified miss. It worked so well, I just kept it as part of my approach.

[MelK]

And what do you say when she says that she is Christie's sister?

[ChipWrecked]

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And what do you say when she says that she is Christie's sister?

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"Do you give better head than she does?"

[WDC]

would you like to use my swizzle stick?