how do you avoid fighting about rules in a tournament?

[David K.]

I'm tired of always fighting about the rules in our home (no limit hold'em) tournament.

Is there a website that lists "official rules" of tournament play that we could all agree to once and for all?

Typical subjects of disagreement are:

Who posts blinds when a player is ousted? What if two non-consecutive players are ousted at the same time? Who posts the big blind when there are only two players left in the game? If you say "I call, and I raise", is that a string bet? If you say "I will raise" and start putting little stacks of chips in front of you one after the other while watching your opponents reaction, is that a string bet?

And so on and so on....