Opening Lines for Chicks @ Coffee Shops

[coffeecrazy1]

"You don't meet nice girls in coffee shops." - Tom Waits

[M2d]

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If a girl came up to you in a coffee shop what would she need to say to have a chance with you?


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any Hellen Keller quote would likely work on most OOTiots.

[asofel]

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I always just ask them about whatever happens to be on my mind at the moment. My throat is shot to hell and has been in a lot of pain for the past few days, so I ran out yesterday to Starbucks to get a tea and lounge and read. I was thinking about how long it'd be since I'd been to a Starbucks as opposed to making my own coffee, and from there how long it'd been since I had a soda since I swore it off for the summer and now find it appalling. Super cute girl was spotted and I went up to her and asked her if she remembered Crystal Pepsi. We laughed and chatted and I ended up not touching my book. And yes, I got her number. Anything that can bring up extreme emotions (love/hate) is going to be good. Things that can quickly or immediately lead to her having a "omg I [LOVE, can't STAND] _____" reaction.

GoT

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Nice post Guy. Feel like describing that first initial moment?

I've stopped worrying about the intro so much, as what you say doesn't matter nearly as much as how you say it, or what you follow up with.

Be confident, be fun, don't be too goofy or weird. Sarcasm and the ability to say a variety of things with a straight face is key. If you're lucky enough to have a friend there then you have an easy foil for plenty of conversation starters.

"So, do you drink coffee?"

[man]

the only way you'll learn is through practice. to practice, go to a coffee shop and talk to a girl way below your standards. say anything that comes to mind, and see what works. the thing is that if you're not comfortable with your "opening line", it's a pointless exercise to try to talk to a girl you're actually interested in.

an alternate exercise is to talk to a girl way above your standards. if you can put the possibility of actually getting with them out of your mind, it takes a lot of the pressure off.

[diebitter]

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Diebitter....U better have all the lines ready for Saturday - I wanna see you in action...u have definitely set yourself a precedent....

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Vava, you've seen my picture of how I look now. Do you really think I'd be able to even pull a rotten tooth out of a dead horse's head???

[mprhino]

If you use the "Are you single?" line, and she says "no". Then your follow up question should be "Do you cheat?"

[Autocratic]

Lines are good, but I prefer to pretend to be talking to someone on my cell phone and say something like "Whatever, 25 grand isn't a big deal." Most girls won't respond to it, but you'll bang more golddiggers than you'd believe.

[Yeti]

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If you use the "Are you single?" line, and she says "no". Then your follow up question should be "Do you cheat?"

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I like this.

[housenuts]

how about:

excuse me, do you have any ice?
huh?
because some needs to be broken