virginity

[The Dude]

A girl that, in order to have any form of sexual intercourse, needs to be told anal sex doesn't make her lose her virginity is clearly not ready to make the decision to have sex. Granted, she's confused and not thinking straight about the situation, but that's pretty common. Parents are really, really bad at talking to their kids about sex, so it's pretty common for kids to have really ignorant perspectives on sex.

Straight forward, honest conversation with one's girlfriend about when it's okay to have sex is one thing, but using blatantly manipulative arguments in order to satisfy one's own sexual desires is offensive. I have several female friends who had very bad experiences with manipulative men when they were younger, and have serious trust issues with they guys they date now.

Life would be a lot easier for girls (and for the nice guys that come along later) if young guys would stop thinking with their dicks and start showing respect and consideration for girls.

[jakethebake]

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A girl that, in order to have any form of sexual intercourse, needs to be told anal sex doesn't make her lose her virginity is clearly not ready to make the decision to have sex. Granted, she's confused and not thinking straight about the situation, but that's pretty common. Parents are really, really bad at talking to their kids about sex, so it's pretty common for kids to have really ignorant perspectives on sex.

Straight forward, honest conversation with one's girlfriend about when it's okay to have sex is one thing, but using blatantly manipulative arguments in order to satisfy one's own sexual desires is offensive. I have several female friends who had very bad experiences with manipulative men when they were younger, and have serious trust issues with they guys they date now.

Life would be a lot easier for girls (and for the nice guys that come along later) if young guys would stop thinking with their dicks and start showing respect and consideration for girls.

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This is all well and good, but it's also a very demeaning attitude toward girls. Your whole argument assumes that young guys are smart enough to figure all this out and young girls are just stupid and easily manipulated. Actually in most cases, it's probably the opposite if anything since girls tend to mature younger than boys. Also, I'm guessing that the majority, yes i said the majority, of girls had some similar situation. Not necessarily in the pooper, but just that they hold out until some guy finally convinces them to have sex, whatever argument he uses. And I don'tr think all these girls have trust issues because of it. Maybe some do, but I think you're taking this a little too seriosuly.

[bernie]

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A girl that, in order to have any form of sexual intercourse, needs to be told anal sex doesn't make her lose her virginity is clearly not ready to make the decision to have sex. Granted, she's confused and not thinking straight about the situation, but that's pretty common. Parents are really, really bad at talking to their kids about sex, so it's pretty common for kids to have really ignorant perspectives on sex.

Straight forward, honest conversation with one's girlfriend about when it's okay to have sex is one thing, but using blatantly manipulative arguments in order to satisfy one's own sexual desires is offensive. I have several female friends who had very bad experiences with manipulative men when they were younger, and have serious trust issues with they guys they date now.

Life would be a lot easier for girls (and for the nice guys that come along later) if young guys would stop thinking with their dicks and start showing respect and consideration for girls.

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In regards to the story, you really have to take the ages of the people involved into consideration. The boys are also confused and not thinking str8 about the situation. It's also a time when the male sex drive is at it's highest.

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[James Boston]

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You guys were f*cking a**holes in highschool

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Maybe so. I, however, was not involved in this. Just because I think it's a funny story doesn't make me guilty. Also, to lump me (someone you don't know) along with my HS buddies (people you REALLY don't know) into the category of "f***ing a**holes" is quit a leap based on one story.

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and it sounds like you still are.

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Again, you don't know me or my friends. You don't know what we were like then, nor do you know what we are like now. It wasn't the most flattering story I could have told on them, but it's no basis to make such a broad statement.

[sublime]

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When I was in HS, a good friend of mine convinced his virgin girlfriend that he could SIIHP and she would still be a virgin. She bought it, he SIIHP, and we still enjoy that story to this day.

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You guys were f*cking a**holes in highschool, and it sounds like you still are.

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let me guess. you think gang rapes are bad also? sheesh.

[HopeydaFish]

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My roommate is a virgin. He has been talking with a girl recently and asked me if he put it in the pooper if he would still be considered a virgin. He wants to stay a virgin (i dont know why); would this be ok?

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You religious types crack me up. Always looking for loopholes to get around "sin". Trust me, if "God" doesn't like you sticking it in a girl's vagina, he'll be even less pleased if you SIIHP.

Why does your roommate want to remain a virgin? So he can wear white on his wedding day?

[Thythe]

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You religious types crack me up. Always looking for loopholes to get around "sin". Trust me, if "God" doesn't like you sticking it in a girl's vagina, he'll be even less pleased if you SIIHP.

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Very well said.

[A_C_Slater]

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You religious types crack me up. Always looking for loopholes to get around "sin". Trust me, if "God" doesn't like you sticking it in a girl's vagina, he'll be even less pleased if you SIIHP.

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Very well said.

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It also shows that they lack a fundamental understanding of the Bible that they pretend to love so much. Doesn't he know that God killed everyone in Sodom & Gomorrah because they loved having anal orgies?

Doesn't this dumbass know we get the word Sodomy from that Biblical city?

[jakethebake]

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You religious types crack me up. Always looking for loopholes to get around "sin". Trust me, if "God" doesn't like you sticking it in a girl's vagina, he'll be even less pleased if you SIIHP.

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You're speaking for God now?

[HopeydaFish]

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You religious types crack me up. Always looking for loopholes to get around "sin". Trust me, if "God" doesn't like you sticking it in a girl's vagina, he'll be even less pleased if you SIIHP.

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You're speaking for God now?

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I also speak for the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny.