Girlfriend trying to cheat on me

[wacki]

Ya, Dynasty, this one isn't even close. The thought of cheating should scare her and frighten her of losing her boyfriend. She obviously has fantasies about either cheating or this guy. Either situation is NOT a good one. It is also a situation THAT WILL GET WORSE over time.

Sorry mason55, I like you and it sucks when people have to go through this.

[mason55]

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You dump her, now.

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Poor advice. You don't dump somebody so quickly after a relationship of more than a year.

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I think this is a bit more serious than if she met some guy at a party, had a few too many, one thing led to another, etc. How is he supposed to trust her again?

I'd guess the guy is married too.

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Not married. Kind of engaged though. Serious relationship. And yes, I would not have a problem if she got drunk one night at a party and hooked up with some guy.

She's gone out of her way over the course of two days here to talk to this guy.

[mason55]

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Joe tall is wise. The fact that you are even thinking about this means you are most likely going to learn the hard way. It won't be until after she gives you a disease (or two) and/or mentally scars you for life will you be able to learn.

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He's begging to get burned. If he is sure that she is considering someone else. Confront her and if she is, end it.

I've been in 3 serious relationships past 25 years of age, and the two prior to the one I'm in now, I learned quickly as soon as trust is broken it's over. It's simple as that, it'll burn your two as long as you are together, she is likely to drift again as it's pretty simple, she's just not that into you.

There are so so many other girls out there, stop wasting your time and get out there and find a right one.

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As I said, no question it's over. Just thinking about having some fun with her.


Ok, so new topic. Give me some suggestions for the next day or two before I dump her ass. I was going to take her on a tour of NoVa wineries tomorrow but that is obviously out ot the question now.

[mason55]

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Ya, Dynasty, this one isn't even close. The thought of cheating should scare her and frighten her of lose her boyfriend. She obviously has fantasies about either cheating or this guy. Either situation is NOT a good one. It is also a situation THAT WILL GET WORSE over time.

Sorry mason55, I like you and it sucks when people have to go through this.

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Thanks for the support guys. I didn't know 2+2 could actually be this nice [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[Inthacup]

make sure you give her a hate [censored] before you dump her

[Soul Daddy]

So she has that little regard for you that she is doing this while you are there? Yeah, this bitch deserves everything she gets.

[Eurotrash]

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make sure you give her a hate [censored] before you dump her

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these were my thoughts exactly in the post below [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[jack spade23]

Youre gonna update this in a couple of days right? And be sure to tell her 2+2 said "Go to hell, bitch"

[mason55]

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Youre gonna update this in a couple of days right? And be sure to tell her 2+2 said "Go to hell, bitch"

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Obviously. I will get naked pictures before I dump her. They WILL be posted to 2+2.

[DBowling]

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...however, before you do, may I suggest something a la PoBoy? Stick it in her shithole, then after you're done, do the "I'm gonna sure miss that..." and then tell her to GTFO.

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i think this is a good idea.