Should I Move? (long)

[ThisHo]

I voted move based on your list of pros/cons. I do find it amusing that you listed "her" as #1 and "attractive women" as #7... gotta have a backup plan I guess. I'm not saying its wrong, just find it amusing. "I love her, AND there are a ton of hot chicks for me to oggle!"

Anyhow, it seems clear that you really want to move but don't want to piss off your family. Family will usually understand and will likely always be there for you (its not always the case, but sounds like you've got a pretty solid fam).

My suggestion for what to change:

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We also hadn't been getting along well because we saw each other constantly and I also had a tendency to be an [censored] more often than not.

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If you guys don't get along when you lived together and if its because you're an ass then stop being an ass. If there are real compatability issues then reconsider moving.

~ThisHo