Whats the best way to read women?

[partygirluk]

It seems that she likes you a lot. Also she comes across as a total bimbo, so losing her friendship is no big deal. Just ask her out on a date and take it from there.

[SheetWise]

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Anyway, I'm not sure how to read her. What other clues should I pay attention to that I'm missing.

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WOmen are a lot like poker opponents. Pay little or no attention to what they say -- they are defined by what they do.

I think this situation clearly calls for a value bet, then adjust your game according to what she does.

You have no way of knowing it, but I've been laffin' my butt off! You, IMO, have waaaaaaaay too many "self esteem problems." <------ pop psych, I know, I know! But it does seem appropriate here.

Quit putting yourself down and start makin' a play. Some women DO NOT give a rat's ass about 70% of what us guys think they're concerned with. She's ONLY five years older. Up until I was in my late 30's the best I ever had was always at least 10 years older. (topic for a whole other thread)

Now, you DO know we're gunna expect updates, trip reports and PICS? Right?

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[revots33]

My wife of 3+ years is totally cute and way out of my league in the looks department. The world is full of ugly guys with good-looking girlfriends. Who knows what they see in us? She's giving you every hint in the book. At 26 she may be mature enough to not judge a guy based only on his looks. Go for it.

[felix83]

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Dude, why do you want to fold AA pre-flop? Sure, they may get cracked, but you've to get your money in the middle when you are ahead.

Just realized I posted this to the wrong thread, but after further review it probably still applies. Stop being a pansy and ask her out.

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I love this place.

I like a stop and go here, of asking her to get together to study, and then pulling a move if the mood feels right. Late night, some textbooks, could work out nicely.

Snowball, keep us posted.

[Tilt]

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1. She goes out of her way to compliment me on various things. "This stuff is easy for you because you're smart"
"I'm so glad we ended up sitting next to eachother"
"Its almost like you're already a lawyer"
"Its cute the way you do that"
"I'm really happy that I have a friend in the class"
"Your hair looks good. Did you get a haircut?"
2. She laughs at my jokes
3. She smiles at me a lot
4. She keeps trying to make plans that involve me
"I really want to learn latin. We should take latin together!"
"We need to study together"
"You should teach me how to play poker. Do you think I'll be good?"
Or, she'll ask me if I like horror movies and then she'll mention that one is playing...
5. She started initiating and giving me hugs whenever she says goodbye now.
6. She offered to "heal" my stomache ache.
She's into yoga and stuff like that and told me she would do healing work on my stomache problems. I don't believe in stuff like this, but its a pretty nice thought, like when you know someone is keeping you in their prayers or rooting for you to win a hand or something.
10. She said "I love you" in a girly way when I gave her this burnt cd. Then she said she'd buy me something while she's away on her vacation.
11. She asked me for my phone number w/in the first few classes


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If you don't as her out after all these hints, who will you ask out????

Based on this list of clues, you should just make a pass at her rather than ask her out. Try it while she's "healing your stomach".

[Autocratic]

You guys are taking those "hints" a little too seriously. There's a good chance that she likes you. There's also a good chance she considers you a good guy and would NEVER date you.

No matter how many signals you're getting, remember one thing: women are [censored] crazy.

based on the positives and your self image, it seems like she is a overly flirtatious girl who enjoys having the upper hand and control over a self conscious guy. why do girls sometimes do this? because they can. to see if she is genuine with her comments, see how she interacts with other guys. is she the same way, or are you special?
it's possible that she does find you attractive, but she may feel like you are too thick to ask her out. wait too long and the opportunity will slip away.
the negatives didn't seem too bad, still possible.
good luck

You're probably ahead, but she could be using you:
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"This stuff is easy for you because you're smart"
"I'm so glad we ended up sitting next to eachother"
"Its almost like you're already a lawyer"
"Its cute the way you do that"
"I'm really happy that I have a friend in the class"


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