Would You Pop her Cherry?

Cunning Linguist · #1 09-30-2005, 01:38 PM

So I've been dating this girl since early september and she announced to me the other day that she is still a virgin. In case it is pertinent, she turned 19 in August and I am 23. There is nothing wrong with this girl, no deformities or ugliness, in case you're wondering. She told me last night she wants to bone (not quite verbatim).

This piece of information puts forth a difficult moral dilemma for me.
You see, I like this girl, sort of. She likes me a whole f'n lot. She also thinks I like her much more than I actually do. I enjoy spending time with her, and she's attractive to me, but I don't see this lasting very long. I doubt it lasts until Halloween. I do wish I liked her more, there's just something missing.

This girl likes me much more than she should after only one month. If I pop her cherry, she's probably going to think we're going to be together forever (she's a bit clingy) and tell me she loves me, etc. etc.

So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?
Would you take a girls virginity if you really didn't think it wouldn't last?

PS. Assume you're not a desprit, sex-depraved OOT'iot.

M2d · #2 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

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This girl likes me much more than she should after only one month. If I pop her cherry, she's probably going to think we're going to be together forever (she's a bit clingy) and tell me she loves me, etc. etc.

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run
far
quickly

jakethebake · #3 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

SIIHP

Girchuck · #4 09-30-2005, 03:15 PM

How are you going to pop her cherry by SIIHP?

jakethebake · #5 09-30-2005, 04:23 PM

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How are you going to pop her cherry by SIIHP?

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it was an alternative plan.

LetYouDown · #6 09-30-2005, 01:40 PM

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PS. Assume you're not a desprit, sex-depraved OOT'iot.

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You really lowered your sample size with that request.

PoBoy321 · #7 09-30-2005, 01:41 PM

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So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?

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Do you mean, do I think you're a pussy for not taking advantage of a girl who's infatuated with you and willing to give up something that she's been saving her entire life for someone special, who she wrongly thinks is you?

Patrick del Poker Grande · #8 09-30-2005, 01:46 PM

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So, am I a pussy for not jamming her?

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Do you mean, do I think you're a pussy for not taking advantage of a girl who's infatuated with you and willing to give up something that she's been saving her entire life for someone special, who she wrongly thinks is you?

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She's got to learn some time.

jakethebake · #9 09-30-2005, 01:51 PM

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Do you mean, do I think you're a pussy for not taking advantage of a girl who's infatuated with you and willing to give up something that she's been saving her entire life for someone special, who she wrongly thinks is you?

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There's a flipside to that. He's going to dump her w/o having sex with her. She's going to be on the rebound and find some total jerk that doesn't care anything about her. It sounds like she's a nice girl and you care about her. There's nothing wrong with making her first time a nice experience, even if the relationship doesn't last forever.

M2d · #10 09-30-2005, 01:55 PM

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There's a flipside to that. He's going to dump her w/o having sex with her. She's going to be on the rebound and find some total jerk that doesn't care anything about her. It sounds like she's a nice girl and you care about her. There's nothing wrong with making her first time a nice experience, even if the relationship doesn't last forever.

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then, you come back and hit it for some no-strings sex. the first time pressures are off, so the potential guilt is gone. plus, maybe she'll learn a thing or two and make the experience fun for OP.