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#21
12-05-2005, 04:14 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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Call me a cynic, but it doesn't matter. You'll meet at the restaurant or maybe some bar. You'll have a few drinks, have a nice meal. You'll have a great time. Everything will click and you'll think she's perfect. You may or may not have great sex. If not, you will on the next date. But after a couple of months, she'll pull a Bruce Lee. She'll rip your heart out of your chest, eat it in front of you and leave you bleeding to death in the middle of the floor. [/ QUOTE ] I thought it was funny 
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#22
12-05-2005, 04:16 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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1. Don't do dinner for a first date. 2. Don't do a fri / sat night for a first date. 3. Get a drink at a bar / coffee shop / whatever in a trendy, cool neighborhood. 4. Don't pick her up, have her meet you there. J
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#25
12-05-2005, 04:53 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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I wouldn't even consider taking a date to fresh pond [/ QUOTE ] Alewife is teh suck. Just about anywhere else in Cambridge would be 1000 times better.
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#28
12-05-2005, 04:59 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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zod, 1. Don't do dinner for a first date. 2. Don't do a fri / sat night for a first date. 3. Get a drink at a bar / coffee shop / whatever in a trendy, cool neighborhood. 4. Don't pick her up, have her meet you there. J [/ QUOTE ] hmm, I kind of agree, but: since we hung out for about 2 hours at the party Saturday night, I think the pressure is off a bit for the "first date". having a drink on a Thursday or whatever is an ok plan, but I think often time girls enjoy somebody picking them up, picking out a place to go to dinner, etc. it's kind of old fashioned, but still works. I don't agree with the 'meet somewhere' plan. I think it shows a lot more care/thought if you pick her up, or go see her.
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#29
12-05-2005, 05:00 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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What is the roommate situation for each of you? craig [/ QUOTE ] good question. I currently have 2 roomates, in a big apt. - not an ideal "bring her back" situation, but not bad either. unsure of her status.
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#30
12-05-2005, 05:05 PM
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Re: 1st date: her neighborhood or yours?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] OP- Which city? [/ QUOTE ] Cambridge/Somerville (Boston, basically). [/ QUOTE ] what neighborhoods one is bound to be cooler than the other. [/ QUOTE ] Inman Square vs Alewife, which isn't really a neighborhood at all [/ QUOTE ] I say take her to Back Bay. Dunno if Boston isn't an option for some reason, but it's neutral and fun. [/ QUOTE ] Back Bay is a good option. the only negative is logistics. driving/valeting is kind of a pain, and taking the T on a first date is kind of ghetto I think. a cab is an option, I guess. basically, I think I want to avoid driving or public transportation. I don't drink and drive (if I'm over the legal Blood Alcohol Level, I won't drive) but I want drinks to be part of the evenings itinerary.
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