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#11
08-24-2005, 03:19 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
Don't base big life decisions around a woman. Even if you love her, they will come and go. They are very fickle. What if she breaks up with you? You'll have moved to Florida for nothing. You'll be upset and bitter towards her. You'll have lost everything you had back home. It will all have been a big mistake and there goes two years of your life.
That said, I would probably go. 
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#12
08-24-2005, 03:23 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
Haha, I needed that. I've based a lot of decisions in my life around women and they've almost always been the wrong decisions. Except when it comes to her. She's the first girl I can actually see myself with in the long run...and the first girl that my family has ever really liked as well.
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#13
08-24-2005, 03:59 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
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Did you have this conversation over GoogleTalk, by chance? [/ QUOTE ] Now you have me really curious.
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#14
08-24-2005, 04:15 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
When I was living with my ex-boyfriend for about three months and started to feel homesick I knew that he was not the most important person in my life. He followed me, but when I was not behaving the way he wanted me to, he kept on saying that he left everything behind and that I should respect that. That was the end. So think twice before moving.
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08-24-2005, 04:17 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
Just curious myself, really. Not a big deal.
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#16
08-24-2005, 04:20 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
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When I was living with my ex-boyfriend for about three months and started to feel homesick I knew that he was not the most important person in my life. He followed me, but when I was not behaving the way he wanted me to, he kept on saying that he left everything behind and that I should respect that. That was the end. So think twice before moving. [/ QUOTE ] Point noted. I realize that I am not the only person in this equation...and that she needs to want me to move as much as I need to want to move. This is a pretty valid insight however, and probably the most thought provoking yet. Thank you.
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#17
08-24-2005, 04:23 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
plan b: kill yourself
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#18
08-24-2005, 04:33 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
You are always welcome [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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#19
08-24-2005, 04:42 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
I voted move based on your list of pros/cons. I do find it amusing that you listed "her" as #1 and "attractive women" as #7... gotta have a backup plan I guess. I'm not saying its wrong, just find it amusing. "I love her, AND there are a ton of hot chicks for me to oggle!"
Anyhow, it seems clear that you really want to move but don't want to piss off your family. Family will usually understand and will likely always be there for you (its not always the case, but sounds like you've got a pretty solid fam). My suggestion for what to change: [ QUOTE ] We also hadn't been getting along well because we saw each other constantly and I also had a tendency to be an [censored] more often than not. [/ QUOTE ] If you guys don't get along when you lived together and if its because you're an ass then stop being an ass. If there are real compatability issues then reconsider moving. ~ThisHo
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#20
08-24-2005, 05:00 PM
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Re: Should I Move? (long)
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but she's in Florida now and neither of us knows if she's going to be moving back. She needs to get her head on straight and she needs to be with her family now [/ QUOTE ] i think you should give her some time to get her [censored] together and then go down there.
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