Girlfriend Trouble?

[joeski19]

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By the way, she's an amazing girl. I do believe she would never cheat on me. She is the type of girl who is friends with mostly guys, only some girls, and she's too naive to realize that all the guys just want in her pants.


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Just my experience, but Girls that are friends with mostly guys love the attention they get from guys. They say they don't get along with girls as good. Because the girls arent paying attention to them. Also I think she knows very well that they want in her pants.

If I were you, I would dump her now and save myself pain/heartache later. Clearly she isn't devoted to you if she's really intent on doing this. That's not to say the relationship couldn't grow to that point down the line, but the fact that she is even pondering taking a long pleasure trip with a straight single male is reason alone to dump her, even if she doesn't go through with it.

Sitting at home waiting for her to call while she's out living it up with another dude is not respecting yourself. Don't go down that road. Cut her loose.

I'm happily married but have been through my share of bad relationships. The one thing they have in common- i waited too long before ending them. So I'm giving you this advice from personal experience. There are plenty of nice girls out there. Don't torture yourself.

[OtisTheMarsupial]

I wouldn't be able to not get jealous. I would have a hard time dealing with it. But if it's hre dream, you've got to let her do it. She'll just resent you forever if you stop her. So your options are really to
1. Break up with her now so that no one ends up cheating. Consider possibilities in a few years.
2. Stay committed and try not to get jealous. Plan to talk on the phone once a day or something.
3. Go with her to Europe.

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bang bitches while she's away

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Very good point. You should be out banging bitches anyway. You have the rest of your life to be monogamous. Enjoy as many sexual partners as you can while you're able to do that without being unethical.

There is absolutely no justification in getting stressed out/bent out of shape over this. She's not your wife, nor is she even a long term girlfriend, so you don't have much invested in the pot at this point.

[Puss In Boots]

This is quite a dilemma!

[CPSUpoker]

Im drunk so bear with me

You all have very sound judgementt and alike judgements.

I told her today thtat she can either choose me or choose this [censored] clown COLLIN and go to europe with him. i told her that doing this is not only disregarding my feelings and wants, but it's just a downright [censored] up thing to do.

if I were in her shoes, I would have no desire to leave. now it's on her, she can either choose me, or choose the [censored] highway

[diebitter]

His name's Collin?

That's not a common American name, is it?

If he's British, I'd relax. American girls are very, very safe with British guys, we are far too polite and repressed to act [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Im drunk so bear with me

You all have very sound judgementt and alike judgements.

I told her today thtat she can either choose me or choose this [censored] clown COLLIN and go to europe with him. i told her that doing this is not only disregarding my feelings and wants, but it's just a downright [censored] up thing to do.

if I were in her shoes, I would have no desire to leave. now it's on her, she can either choose me, or choose the [censored] highway

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Good choice, almost as good as leaving her outright. You do realize even if she doesnt go with him your relationship is still doomed? Any chick that is going to put this situation on you will resent you for not letting her do it, just dump her.

[CPSUpoker]

he's americand

also, my middle name is collin, weird huh?

[CPSUpoker]

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