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I feel like a terrible person...
I just told my gf (of 4 years) that things weren't working out.
She is one of the nicest people ever. I feel like a giant asshole right now. However it had to be done. I wasn't really happy in the relationship anymore. I don't know why I'm telling you OOTiots this. -Craig |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
Nude pics please
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
It sucks to hurt people you care about, of course you should feel bad, even though it was the right thing to do.
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
Did the same thing a couple months ago in a 3.5 year relationship. Long distance, college, blah blah blah... you're doing the right thing, for both of you. It's not fair to her in the long run to stay in a relationship that just aint right for you.
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
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I should kill myself. [/ QUOTE ] FYP -Craig <font color="white"> Only kidding. I knew what to expect from OOTards when I posted. </font> |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
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I just told my gf (of 4 years) that things weren't working out. She is one of the nicest people ever. I feel like a giant asshole right now. However it had to be done. I wasn't really happy in the relationship anymore. I don't know why I'm telling you OOTiots this. -Craig [/ QUOTE ] Craig can you enlighten us to what the problems were exactly? It would be interesting to hear why such a long relationship 'folded before SD'. Cheers, SDM |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
It's hard to quantify exactly. I think it's mainly that we've sort of become different people since 4 years ago. We've been fighting a lot lately, and basically I came to the realization that I wasn't happy being in the relationship currently.
It wasn't about anyone else, if that's what you're wondering. -Craig |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
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It's hard to quantify exactly. I think it's mainly that we've sort of become different people since 4 years ago. We've been fighting a lot lately, and basically I came to the realization that I wasn't happy being in the relationship currently. It wasn't about anyone else, if that's what you're wondering. -Craig [/ QUOTE ] No the thought never crossed my mind that infidelity was on the cards, I just find it interesting because 4 years is a long time, narrowing down the problem(s) should be a task undertaken (either in private or public) to ensure you are not 'folding when you should be calling'. Cheers, SDM |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
Eh, even if it was +ev, I think that it's probably more like a tournament in which you might pass up close edges.
-Craig |
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Re: I feel like a terrible person...
Couples counseling is often +EV. You've got a lot invested in this pot, and it costs relatively little in time or money to see one more card.
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