Is this a dick move?

[PokerFink]

So I've been seeing this girl, 'Jen' for about a month. Couple times a week. We haven't been on a date, just fbuddys. She sleeps over during the week sometimes, and we go to the same parties on weekends and hookup afterwards sometimes. The words girlfriend and exclusive have never come up, but I did tell her I wasn't seeing anyone else (and she said likewise).

In any event, winter break is coming up, and I'm going to vegas for two weeks. I'll be 21 (see loc.), barhopping, and it will be difficult for me to turn down some vegas booty. I won't see Jen for the duration of winter break.

Now, I'm going to ask Jen to be my girlfriend, and I'm fairly certain she would go for that. So, would it be a dick move to wait until after winter break to do this? For the sole purpose that I could get some in vegas.

Also, if I were to ask her before break, I would not cheat on her in Vegas. And if I did wait until after break and did hook up with someone in vegas, I would obviously not tell her, as it would accomplish nothing.

And, yeah, I know this is worthless without pics. Sorry.

So...

[kurosh]

Why are you asking other people?

get her to come to vegas with you

[PokerFink]

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Why are you asking other people?

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Curiosity. Isn't that what OOT is for? I mean, does anyone really care how everyone else wipes their ass?

[man]

I would have trouble forming a relationship from a situation like this, regardless of what happens in vegas. it doesn't seem to be based in respect. but meh, if it's your style it's your style.

I think you have to be very sure that this girl wouldn't feel offended before you can sleep around like this. which is to say you're probably better off keeping it in your pants for a month.

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[Bukem_]

Why do you have to ask her to be your girlfriend?

Go to vegas, have fun, do what you want.

Come back, hang out with chick, see how things go.

[kurosh]

Having her come to vegas with you is a terrible idea.

This isn't something other people can give a good opinion on. Are you an [censored]? Do you actually care about the girl? It's just a bunch of baseless speculation. All you gotta do is think about it and imagine if you would feel [censored] or not.

[pokerjoker]

it all depends on how much u care about her. If you really think she is special then ask her now. Because of the nature of this post I am pretty sure u don't though. There is nothing morally wrong with [censored] a bunch of girls in vegas than asking her out, but it will definately weaken your relationship. If u are together in the long term it will come up sometime and she might think less of you for it.

Get laid in Vegas. I would continue to bang her without being her gf. Being F'Buddies is the ideal relationship, unless you're in love with her. Why ruin it by being her bf? [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]