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08-14-2005, 05:43 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
Not leaving my home city for college. I still had fun in school, but I feel like I missed out on a lot of the genuine college experiences.
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08-14-2005, 05:43 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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If nothing in your life has ever been a mistake, how do you change bad patterns in your life. In other words, for me, the only way I feel like I advance is to recognize something that I am doing that isn't working (a mistake or error) and change the pattern. Don't you do something similar? [/ QUOTE ] i cant think of a thing ive ever done that wasnt "working"...so no...at after a certain age its near impossible to change anything about urself. I like who i am...and if people dont...i dont care...im not changing myself for them...of course its cost me a few bfs and what not...but my friends and whatever else was more important to me...i dont see any of that as mistakes or things i want to change - but for me a mistake is something i would do differently. I have only regreted on thing in my life, and thats b/c it resulted in a death...but i wouldnt change it and dont consider it a mistake even though i dearly miss that person
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#13
08-14-2005, 05:49 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
Investing 30k in a business opportunity that I didn't take the time to investigate more thoroughly, and having it soak me for much more than that over the next 6 months.
And I disagree with anyone who can say that nothing they've done is a mistake. If you've never made a mistake then you are not realistically self-critiqueing yourself. That, or you're playing life WAY to passive. Which would be a mistake, in my book. Do you see why? KO
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08-14-2005, 05:54 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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[ QUOTE ] nothing in life is ever a mistake... [/ QUOTE ] OHHHH MAH GAWD REELEEEE???? [/ QUOTE ] zip it short stuff
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#16
08-14-2005, 05:54 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] nothing in life is ever a mistake... [/ QUOTE ] Thanks, now go write some poetry and we can get to some real answers that aren't a bunch of crap. [/ QUOTE ] im being serious...nothing in my life has ever been a mistake...the majority of people that think that way are very depressed people and arent happy with life...im not one of those people [/ QUOTE ] So what you meant is that nothing in your life has been a mistake, and not some stupid philosophic crap about "nothing in life is a mistake"?
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#17
08-14-2005, 05:55 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] nothing in life is ever a mistake... [/ QUOTE ] Thanks, now go write some poetry and we can get to some real answers that aren't a bunch of crap. [/ QUOTE ] im being serious...nothing in my life has ever been a mistake...the majority of people that think that way are very depressed people and arent happy with life...im not one of those people [/ QUOTE ] So what you meant is that nothing in your life has been a mistake, and not some stupid philosophic crap about "nothing in life is a mistake"? [/ QUOTE ] yes nothing in my life has been a mistake...and i dont think others have mistakes....therefore nothing to me is a mistake...people viewing stuff as mistakes causes nothing but negative
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#18
08-14-2005, 05:57 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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If nothing in your life has ever been a mistake, how do you change bad patterns in your life. In other words, for me, the only way I feel like I advance is to recognize something that I am doing that isn't working (a mistake or error) and change the pattern. Don't you do something similar? [/ QUOTE ] If it was something that lead to positive change and growth was it a mistake?No,it was a gift.I've done a lot of stupid things in my life(I'm 40,another "geezer" here).Drug and alcohol addiction,petty crimes,selling bad drugs,a long string of psycotic relationships etc.I look back and realize that these trials in life were what made me who and am today,and I like me.If you're not growing,your not living and growth can be painful sometimes. I can honestly say I've made no mistakes in my life.
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08-14-2005, 05:58 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
So what do you call these
1) person getting drunk and crashing their car and killing a family of 5 2) person dropping out of high school because of crack addiction 3) murdering your dad because you get in a fight 4) raping a child
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#20
08-14-2005, 06:00 PM
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Re: What has been your biggest mistake in life so far?
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nothing in life is ever a mistake... [/ QUOTE ] I was once almost intimate with a friend's wife at his house(a house in which i was an invited guest), I finally told him of what was going on between his wife and me. Believe me...this is a mistake(helping a wife cheat on her husband)and thereby being a cheat yourself. Many
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