girls are annoying

[gulebjorn]

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Only if shes hot though

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Yea, fugly chicks do photoshoots for nekkid calenders all the time, so that's a real concern here. [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Who knows, but it had to be said

[irishpint]

for some reason it doesn't feel right even posting a clothed picture of her...and who would want that anyway? but if we ever break up i've got a nice chunk of interesting things to post. but for the time being I'm still wondering what to do. Each choice seems to work for a second before I change my mind and decide against it. I guess I want to take the high road (is there one here?). I don't want to seem weak, like I'm scared of this guy. I really think that if I take care of my business everything will work out- maybe I don't even need to say anything? I dunno, maybe I'll wait until she gets here, get drunk, have sex (in case its the last time...) and bring it up.

[Glenn]

This is exactly right. If you trust her then it shouldn't be an issue. If you don't, then THAT should be the issue.

[Slim Pickens]

Sex outside of a relationship is fine as long as...

a) BOTH parties agree to that's it's fine and
b) no one having sex outside of the relationship has any non-physical feelings for the third party

If both conditions are not met, no, otherwise, yes.

PS: Kick her ass to the curb for not discussing this.

[JMP300z]

dont go to dental school....

JP
...walking out the door to go to dental school as I type this crap. Luckily today I got to sleep in till 7:30.

[GAL]

Here is the truth of the matter, to your girlfriend this guy is a friend and that's it, to this guy your girlfriend is a friend who he hasn't fcuked.....YET

[drewjustdrew]

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Each choice seems to work for a second before I change my mind and decide against it.

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This decision is not the end of the world. If she was so amazing and worth holding on to, she wouldn't put you in this situation. But then again, maybe you are into drama, and it sounds like she knows how to provide it.

[jakethebake]

Ii started to give some advice here. Then realized the exact advice I was about to give was part of how I completely screwed up once, and despite it probably being good advice in your case, would make me feel really stupid. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

Anyway, good luck to the op.

[NutCrackerr]

I'm going to have to see the pictures before I can offer you any advice.