Girlfriend trying to cheat on me

mason55 · #1 05-28-2005, 02:21 PM

So my girlfriend (1.5 years, we live together but she's moving to LA for the summer to start a business, I am in DC) left an email open on my computer last night. She was contacting a guy in LA about a discrete relationship. I have her email password but have never used it because I trust her. So far they're just introducing themselves.

Here's the question. I'm obviously going to say something. Do I confront her now or should I wait a day or two and read the emails they send back and forth and see where it goes?

Joe Tall · #2 05-28-2005, 02:24 PM

You dump her, now.

Freakin · #3 05-28-2005, 02:24 PM

Wait a few days to see what materializes. Unless the emails you have are already obviously headed in a bad direction, you could be jumping to conclusions.

Freakin

pshreck · #4 05-28-2005, 02:24 PM

Definetly wait to read the emails. You are already done with her, so have some fun with it first.

mason55 · #5 05-28-2005, 02:25 PM

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You dump her, now.

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Yeah I know I need to. I just feel like playing detective for a day or two. I guess I should go do it right now. She'll have plenty of time for her business now.

Dynasty · #6 05-28-2005, 02:25 PM

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You dump her, now.

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Poor advice. You don't dump somebody so quickly after a relationship of more than a year.

mason55 · #7 05-28-2005, 02:26 PM

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Wait a few days to see what materializes. Unless the emails you have are already obviously headed in a bad direction, you could be jumping to conclusions.

Freakin

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"I don't have trouble meeting guys my age but I'm looking for someone older to have fun with this summer"

"I don't care about materials, don't want to use you for money. I'm interested in the discrete part of the relationship"

mason55 · #8 05-28-2005, 02:27 PM

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Definetly wait to read the emails. You are already done with her, so have some fun with it first.

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Yeah I know if I call her out right now I won't get a chance to see what's going to happen which I'm very curious about. After the email I read though it's going to be very hard to keep my mouth shut. She can already tell something isn't right.

Going to be a fun couple days.

Joe Tall · #9 05-28-2005, 02:29 PM

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Poor advice. You don't dump somebody so quickly after a relationship of more than a year.

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I beg to differ. If he is sure that she is considering someone else, she just not the right one, period. 1 year plus or not, she's moving and she's drifting.

Soul Daddy · #10 05-28-2005, 02:29 PM

Sounds like she's playing games to get your attention to me. Even the most retarded of girls wouldn't forget to close/hide the freaking message.