Girl Help

[diebitter]

On a scale of 1-10, which 10 being the most lame boy/girl move in human history, how lame are the OP's moves?

tl;dr


EDIT: Just read, YSSCKY

[lastchance]

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Think of yourself like this:


then you might end up like this:


Instead of being like this:


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[Alobar]

sadly, his moves are par for the course for like 90% of guys.

[Cunning Linguist]

sadly for who? not the other 10%

[rusellmj]

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The next day, feeling like a moron, I left early in the morning. Bad move maybe, might have made her feel like a whore.

What is my line?

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My line here has always been to hit it hard. Then leave a note before I depart in the morning letting her know I enjoyed the time with her and look forward to seeing her again (if the latter applies). Blah Blah Blah.

This does a couple things. Let's them know where I stand on the previous nights activities. They tend to meet me by looking me in the eye with a smile the next time I see them.

[uw_madtown]

Damnit, I misread the poll. Change my 3 to an 8.

He didn't completely blow it initially -- he got back to her place and fooled around. Leaving in the morning was STUPID though. Stay there, make some breakfast, and talk it over with her. Don't let her characterize the whole thing as a drunken mistake first. Get across that you like her and that while it's wasn't the best way to start a relationship (when BOTH of you are drunk -- if you say when SHE was drunk it's going to up the "you're a whore" factor), you'd still be interested in one. Somehow do all that without coming across as love-struck loser.

Tall order to pull that off correctly, but [censored]... better than leaving her there alone and E-MAILING HER LATER.

[Alobar]

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sadly for who? not the other 10%

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heh, good point

[rusellmj]

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He didn't completely blow it initially -- he got back to her place and fooled around. Leaving in the morning was STUPID though. Stay there, make some breakfast, and talk it over with her. Don't let her characterize the whole thing as a drunken mistake first. Get across that you like her and that while it's wasn't the best way to start a relationship (when BOTH of you are drunk -- if you say when SHE was drunk it's going to up the "you're a whore" factor), you'd still be interested in one. Somehow do all that without coming across as love-struck loser.

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OMFG. Hey how about throwing in some free therapy too. Maybe watch Dr. Phil together.

[diebitter]

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sadly for who? not the other 10%

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heh, good point

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Actually, I've gone from pissed off at the OP, to cheered right up [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]